outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Lee82Senior Contributor
Oh no I'm so sorry honey. I tried to help Bear. I tried and I'm sorry it didn't work. Are you able to put something on your skin to sooth it like bepanthum or something similar. I want to give a the most gentlest of hugs right now.
@Former-Member
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Lee82Senior Contributor
https://youtu.be/vmzo3KxP5wo
for you honey! 💕
@Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
It's not your fault my love, I don't think we have ever won that fight. We try but the only thing we could control when we where younger was how clean we where after abuse. Unfortunately there is never a safe or painless why get that clean feeling.
How are you tonight my lovely friend @Lee82 💖
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Lee82Senior Contributor
I unfortunately know that feeling all to well. I did the same thing when I was younger especially after each assault . I also use to wash my hands everyday like 50 times a day to the point they would bleed and be red raw. I am feeling your pain.
I'm doing as well as I can be.
sweetie I know it's hard but some worry about me right now. I can tell you that I am safe right now.
@Former-Member
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Lee82Senior Contributor
No I will not accept that this is the end of you. I will not accept that babe. You are a strong person who has been through unimaginable things. It's a really rough road I know babe. Today has been a very heavy day for you and I know things seem like they will never get better but you have to believe there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Think of your children sweets. Think of all the good you still can do. Think of me. I won't handle it.
i know that sounds selfish but I don't care. You can beat this. You are a fighter. You have come so far don't stop now. We still need to have that walk on the beach talking shit.
Think of your beautiful granddaughter and what you still have to show her. All the love you have to give her.
I know you can do it babe. I know you can. We just need to get through the night and then tomorrow is another day. Today was a bad day but tomorrow will be better.
@Former-Member
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I am so sorry about that song Nikki posted, yes it how we are we are feeling but still unfair to post such a thing. I am going to ask that @Former-Member remove that clip. I am so so sorry @Lee82
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Unknown userMember
Honey I have failed them more than you will ever know. @Lee82
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Lee82Senior Contributor
Don't ever be sorry for being honest. It's ok. If you want it taken off that's fine honey. I will support that. @Former-Member
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LotusgirlSenior Contributor
@Former-Member hey Izzy are you on
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