outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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its ok @Snowie you can talk to me, im always here to listen. it is so tough to feel ok anywhere when certain things happen. we can talk about something else if you would like but understand if you feel abit better logging off for the night. either way sitting with you 
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Unknown userMember
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Just what I wrote about on my thread @outlander . I have been tempted to cancel many times. Afraid to go, but equally afraid not to. I think a bit like you and @Snowie are talking about .. a loss of trust.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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ill go back and read your thread @Former-Member give me a 2 seconds
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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ok I went and read back about the things happening with your psych @Former-Member
that would be really tough. when you normally have a certain sort of interaction and then it changes it can be really hard to know how to act/react and also brings up many emotions and thoughts just as it done for you.
its ok you are worried and have concerns now, I think thats pretty normal. I do hope that youll go though and this session will be more helpful.
if the session is much like the last one, perhaps it would be worth chatting to her about how the sessions are going if thats something your comfortable in doing?
that would be really tough. when you normally have a certain sort of interaction and then it changes it can be really hard to know how to act/react and also brings up many emotions and thoughts just as it done for you.
its ok you are worried and have concerns now, I think thats pretty normal. I do hope that youll go though and this session will be more helpful.
if the session is much like the last one, perhaps it would be worth chatting to her about how the sessions are going if thats something your comfortable in doing?
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Unknown userMember
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Yes you are right of course @outlander . Its best I know.
And depending on what she says about everything, it is my intention to talk about whether future sessions are an option, or not. Fact is, with out of pocket costs involved, I consider psych sessions to be a luxury for me. But its a luxury I've been willing to pay for, until now. Now though ... if she has given up on me, then clearly she sees me as a lost cause. And she's one of the best, by reputation. If I cannot trust her fully, or rely on her support when I need it .. what good is she to me? I also believe she has told my GP things recently, which I told her in confidence. So I'm not sure I fully trust her, as I once did. She may have told him with my welfare in mind, but its still a breach of trust. But, if I 'sack' her ... then I am completely on my own again. So my head is going around and around in circles. I feel dizzy from it all, thrown totally out of kilter.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Having your psych talk to your gp would be tricky @Former-Member
That was one of my issues when i was seeing pdocs and psychs. They all communicated with each other so it always felt like i had to watch what i was saying and i couldn't trust any of them. The new pdoc i have seema to frustrate my gp because he doesnt communicate as much only basically an update on the medications, my previous pdoc use to write everything including what i wore to appts!
I really hope it all works out until now i know your psych has been a big help to you. Having an open convo wirh her sounds like a good idea then at least you know where you stand. Im not sure she has given up on you, i totally get how your thinking though.
Is there a womens health centre in your area? I wonder if they offer frew counselling sessions... there is one thats about 40 min away from me and they offer free counselling sessions. Might be worth looking into? I hate that everything in life honestly revolves around finances
That was one of my issues when i was seeing pdocs and psychs. They all communicated with each other so it always felt like i had to watch what i was saying and i couldn't trust any of them. The new pdoc i have seema to frustrate my gp because he doesnt communicate as much only basically an update on the medications, my previous pdoc use to write everything including what i wore to appts!
I really hope it all works out until now i know your psych has been a big help to you. Having an open convo wirh her sounds like a good idea then at least you know where you stand. Im not sure she has given up on you, i totally get how your thinking though.
Is there a womens health centre in your area? I wonder if they offer frew counselling sessions... there is one thats about 40 min away from me and they offer free counselling sessions. Might be worth looking into? I hate that everything in life honestly revolves around finances
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@outlanderjust coming by to see how you are today. I know you are probably busy with the kids today. Lots of love
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Hope today has been kind to you @outlander
All my love Snowie
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Snowie ❤❤❤❤
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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@outlander 💙💙💙
