outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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@outlander, it can be very overwhelming at times , and sometimes it does feel and looks worse
one day at a time , write things that need to be done first and then put the other things afterward
which is the first one to come and soo on
Hello @Gazza75 , how are you today xx
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Gazza75Senior Contributor
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@outlander, it sounds like a lot. You always have so much on. I would talk to your mum again and make it clear to her that you need help and she better assist or provide alternatives.
Maybe start with the specialist and get things happening there, it might take them a while to send the fax and then for the calls to come in to you.
I'm not sure if you have a calendar or planner.. maybe you can put it all down and then it might not see quite as much. 
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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yes I agree with you @Gazza75
@outlander
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Gazza75Senior Contributor
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Hey @Shaz51 , I am doing okay thanks 🙂
Went to Sydney yesterday, it was horribly smokey.. glad I am back at home base today.
How are you?
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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verryy hot up here @Gazza75
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Gazza75Senior Contributor
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Its pretty warm down here in NSW today to @Shaz51 .
Have you got the afternoon off? 🙂
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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sure do @Gazza75 no mowing , all the lawns have gone brown
how is your farm xx
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Gazza75Senior Contributor
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Farm is going okay @Shaz51 , had to sell all my animals as to expensive to keep buying feed for them. Probably going to have to sell it in the next few years so I can take care of my parents. Pretty sad about that as I wanted to retire and live there. Trying to make the most of each weekend / day i have out there.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Ive got 3 planners @Gazza75 @Shaz51 one as an actual calander one on my computer and one on my phone so im organised tht way its more or a matter of where im suppose to try and fit everything in.
Mum needs to work cause her partner isnt yet so shes feeling the pressure but her partner is also on and off at firefighting jobs so i cant rely on that help either.
Ive emailed specialist and paid all the bills plus horses so far. Have to go to post office have kids to do as well till 9pm
Will wait to hesr from specilist and go from there
Mum needs to work cause her partner isnt yet so shes feeling the pressure but her partner is also on and off at firefighting jobs so i cant rely on that help either.
Ive emailed specialist and paid all the bills plus horses so far. Have to go to post office have kids to do as well till 9pm
Will wait to hesr from specilist and go from there
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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yes , that is sad @Gazza75 , but you are not there yet , fingers crossed
can you or have you got services for your parents
i mostly do everything for my mum
my mum is talking about us moving down to look after her in the near future
mr shaz is no liking that idea at all
