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@CheerBear🌈🦄❤ How are you going tonight? it seems very quiet on the forums today
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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I'm going OK enough thanks @outlander. Tired as much as anything tonight I think. I had a big day today and haven't been home long so I'm chilling out for a bit before heading to bed.
How are you going?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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sounds like a busy and tiring day @CheerBear chilling for abit then bed sounds good. im doing much the same. once I finish my tea ill be laying down in bed.
im ok enough, just taking it day by day. abit worried about next Friday but trying to put that out of my mind for now.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Yes definitely a tiring day @outlander. But I managed it.
I haven't been around much to properly keep up with many people so I might have missed catching what next Friday means to you. Listening if you'd like to share, though I get it might be better to not talk about it if you're wanting to put it out of your mind.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Is tomorrow looking a little easier? @CheerBear do you have much on?
I havent really mentioned. Its just what we talked about before with contraception stuff. Going to get that procedure done but im having some concerns is all. It would help if i could actually name them here but i do speak with my nurse on monday so can run some things by her. I wont see her for abit after that though as shes using some of her leave time. I joined up with another nurse last time she was away for a while so im thinking ill do that again for peace of mind and to help keep myself on track physically as well.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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I am not sure about easier as I guess that depends on how 'easier' is defined 😉 but tomorrow is looking different to today @outlander. I have a bit on for the next little while. Im trying super hard not to get too far ahead as I can feel pretty overwhelmed when I think about it.
I can see why worry and concern might be there for you. It has been for me with this one. Something like this can be a big decision. It's good to hear you have your nurse to run it over with on Monday. There's a bit of time between Monday and Friday to work through any concerns hopefully 🤞
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Lol @CheerBear im glad the days looking a little different at least. Taking things abit at a time sounds like a wise move to me.
Theres alot changing here now too with not much of an option for me. It means i basically have kids of a morning and most arvos as well. Abit of pressure happening with that and adds abit of my concerns with the option im considering. Not sure how my body is going to react because arent bodies just fantastic and like to be a pain for no reason :face_with_rolling_eyes::face_with_rolling_eyes: it is quite a big decision one that i cant share with many so makes it trickier. plus a big weekend just after it too as a photographer for a sporting event. I volunteered for that long before i even knew about the contraception options so cant back out now. Ill speak to my nurse though and go get my blood test done that ive been avoiding since before my op. Feeling abit like a pin cushion atm as my meds also require 2/3 monthly bloods too.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@CheerBear just a gentle reminder to breathe too 💕
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