outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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💐💕☕️🌷 @Molliex
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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@Molliex 💕💕💕
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Unknown userMember
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Morning @outlander ... sorry it was another bad night for you. Thinking of you Li'l One.
@Molliex ... love the picture.
Hi @Maggie @CheerBear @Faith-and-Hope
Sherry 💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im sorry i went off for abit, was abit overwhelmed by something here.
@Molliex that pic is so pretty! 💕
@Faith-and-Hope that group hugs looks good to me💌
@CheerBear its only 4 days away including today and the actual surgery date so not long now. Am going to try and get the rest of the house done today and possibly mow the lawn that ive been avoiding 😏🌈
@Former-Member i managed abit more sleep. With daylight savings the sun rises about 6 here now and once the suns up so am i. My window faces the sun rise, even with block out curtains its still really bright 😖
@Sans911 @Snowie @Appleblossom @Maggie @Bunniekins also thinking of you this morning
How is everyone going? Any plans for today?
Sending love to you all
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@Molliex that pic is so pretty! 💕
@Faith-and-Hope that group hugs looks good to me💌
@CheerBear its only 4 days away including today and the actual surgery date so not long now. Am going to try and get the rest of the house done today and possibly mow the lawn that ive been avoiding 😏🌈
@Former-Member i managed abit more sleep. With daylight savings the sun rises about 6 here now and once the suns up so am i. My window faces the sun rise, even with block out curtains its still really bright 😖
@Sans911 @Snowie @Appleblossom @Maggie @Bunniekins also thinking of you this morning
How is everyone going? Any plans for today?
Sending love to you all
💌💕💜❤💟🧡💛💚💙🖤
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Morning lil Sis @outlander 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hoping the next 4 days go smoothly for you @outlander. Do you have some things to do to keep yourself busy and/or things to help you find some calm?
I'm about to head off for an appointment to meet a psych for my muddled Middle. I am absolutely dreading the idea for a few reasons. I'll almost be late for the appointment as it is now (yay for procrastinating 😏). Family support worker after that. I really feel like doing nothing except going back to bed today. But life and all that stuff has to happen 😑:face_with_rolling_eyes:
Better fly. Big love to all. I know there's lots of tough going on for many at the moment ❤
I'm about to head off for an appointment to meet a psych for my muddled Middle. I am absolutely dreading the idea for a few reasons. I'll almost be late for the appointment as it is now (yay for procrastinating 😏). Family support worker after that. I really feel like doing nothing except going back to bed today. But life and all that stuff has to happen 😑:face_with_rolling_eyes:
Better fly. Big love to all. I know there's lots of tough going on for many at the moment ❤
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Morning @Sans911 😇 💜💜
@CheerBear Being busy atm is actually working to my advantage. The days are going a little quicker and helps not to think so much. I find when the days just constantly drag out it gets tougher.
My main 3 today will be the washing the bathroom and the dreaded lawns. Ill see how i feel though, yesterday was awful physically.
Good luck with tbe psych today, i hope theyll be a good match for middle. Hoping the support worker visit goes well too.
Life and stuff always seems to get in the way now doesnt it 😬😏😖
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@CheerBear Being busy atm is actually working to my advantage. The days are going a little quicker and helps not to think so much. I find when the days just constantly drag out it gets tougher.
My main 3 today will be the washing the bathroom and the dreaded lawns. Ill see how i feel though, yesterday was awful physically.
Good luck with tbe psych today, i hope theyll be a good match for middle. Hoping the support worker visit goes well too.
Life and stuff always seems to get in the way now doesnt it 😬😏😖
🌈🦄
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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@outlander
Sorry I disappeared last night. I went to bed. I am pretty flat and sad atm It just is.
There was nothing to apologise for. I did not think you were snappy. You just stated your preference for a clean house and I know you work for it, so it is more than a preference. We all need our work to matter and cleaning gets so repetitive it seems like it is never done. Seeing it, is a way of reminding us of its value. It is an area where woman are still taken for granted.
It is no good that pop is rude and demanding. Are you able to tell him how upsetting it is for you, when he seems better?
Being busy can certainly help and at least we accomplish things. It has been one of my main responses to life. Though feeling flat lately, as I am worried about my son and nothing I do seems to help, so it is time to back off. Though he did say to me, he knows I care.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@outlander
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Snowie 💜💜
thanks for the understanding @Appleblossom
it just gets so frustrating and pressurised sometimes. esp now since its the school holidays as well, cant seem to do anything right. there needs to be a clone of me or something.
pops never better, he doesn't even remember what he says to me after a few hours so I know I shouldn't take it personally but its hard and so draining. just seems to reinforce that I don't seem to be much of a person.
thanks for the understanding @Appleblossom
it just gets so frustrating and pressurised sometimes. esp now since its the school holidays as well, cant seem to do anything right. there needs to be a clone of me or something.
pops never better, he doesn't even remember what he says to me after a few hours so I know I shouldn't take it personally but its hard and so draining. just seems to reinforce that I don't seem to be much of a person.
