outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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Unknown userMember
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Morning everyone can tell you are in a good mood @Former-Member .Yes I hope cute@outlander is ok.
Envy your day yesterday @Sans911,I don't mind port either.
Morning @Faith-and-Hope, on my walk saw my lone brumby,and fell over which brought out my inner child who I don't like as she scares the crap out of me with the trauma that comes with her.
Hope everyone sees something in today,we know @Former-Member will.
Envy your day yesterday @Sans911,I don't mind port either.
Morning @Faith-and-Hope, on my walk saw my lone brumby,and fell over which brought out my inner child who I don't like as she scares the crap out of me with the trauma that comes with her.
Hope everyone sees something in today,we know @Former-Member will.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Goodmorning my lovelies ❤❤ bit of a rough night and feeling it today. Just holding out till tomorrow.
Hoping you all have at least an ok day ❤
Hoping you all have at least an ok day ❤
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Was suppose to put but am ok for the moment in above msg
And... i didn't tag... really on the ball today lol
@Former-Member @Sans911 @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope
And @Former-Member i have 2 first aid kits ones a human ones a horse but it doesnt really matter they both pretty much have the same thing but.... i need to restock the human one for sure oopsy
And... i didn't tag... really on the ball today lol
@Former-Member @Sans911 @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope
And @Former-Member i have 2 first aid kits ones a human ones a horse but it doesnt really matter they both pretty much have the same thing but.... i need to restock the human one for sure oopsy
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Unknown userMember
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@outlanderthats not goos hun, but yes almost tomorrow.
Do you have to do anyhing today at all?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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ive only just got up out of bed- abit headachy and not alot to do today so thought why not @Former-Member
im taking my sisters out a little later for a few hrs. i need to go to the shops and they like shopping so will take then since its local and itll get them out of the house. might grab a milkshake for them too. the new horse needs to be fed as well but im not excited to go there (i feel awful over it, not the horse the way i feel about it)
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Unknown userMember
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@outlandernothing wrong with only getting out of bed!
Must be hard going to the horses all the time. Do your sisters feed them and look after them with your help? I hope they do
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member - that poor wee inner child of yours needs lots of love and attention. She's hurting so much. I suggested to Nell the other day that she write a letter of compassion to that hurt little girl. If you were her adoring, loving mother what would say to her to make her feel better? Would you tell she is loved unconditionally, that you won't blame her for what happened, nor will you judge her for how she is dealing with it? Will you tell her that she is truly beautiful on every way, that she is brave and strong, that she doesn't need to be afraid anymore because you will protect her? And will you tell her that the world isn't always a bad place, that there are kind and caring people that she will know in her life, that sometimes the sun shines in her heart, eyes and mind?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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yeh gets abit boring esp not being able to ride or do as much as i want to do @Former-Member and constantly having the kids to take there takes the fun out of it too. they do help the youngest one hold the horse to fill up the bathtubs so shes out of the way while we are feeding them. it just takes longer and is easier on my own. then they get the craps if i dont let them brush them or ride or whatever but its too hard to watch them all the time and help do every bloody thing. i havent been able to do any work with the horse i ride for nearly 6 months becasue of everything happening and having to help all the time. i cant ride the horse i work with unless mum is there to watch the kis and help them and i like to ahve someone around as she is a cow and is actually quite unpredictable making her dangerous.
when i sold my old horse i brought my sister a new horse as hers went into retirement, and then now my youngest sister has 2 horses as well. just gets really repetitive going there all the time.
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@outlandernothing like having horses to show them responsibility!
Would probably be easier on your own, but hard to watch them riding all the time.
You are a good older sister hun, doing so much for your sisters. They are lucky to have you 
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Thanks @Sans911,was stressed preoccupied when I fell ,didnt srape my knees or hands. I feel like a fragile China doll today,just got back and my mother is going on about the wedding which I have said twice,don't want to hear it.Don't think I'm being mean when I was excluded and when they did things to me which took any love I once felt towards them.My mother is incapable of considering how I might be feeling.
