outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Hi @outlander, finally home, how have you been today?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
really stressful @Former-Member you wont believe it. its fked up. i went to my phone service provider for an issue as in telstra, optus etc. my phone account is in the name of my abuser even though we changed it a few yrs ago. so im in the process of literally changing. getting new number, changing number with clients, everything that has my number. i even thought about leaving here but thats my internet provider not my mobile number but if i have to ill leave and then come back. i am stressed to the fking max not too meantion the trigger of his name and everything!
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@outlanderoh hun, sounds like a very stressful time.
Thats is not good at all hun and would have stirred up a lot of different emotions. Good idea to change number but it should not affect on here. Internet provider would be different to a mobile phone number.
Just try and take some slow deep breaths sis. I am back on here for the night now so can sit with you sweetie ![]()
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@outlander,can understand the trigger of his name👤
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outlanderSenior Contributor
i run though the smae internet provider however it shouldnt affect my internet searches etc itll only come up how much internet ive been using etc and when i recharged shouldnt it?
@Former-Memberi am so stressed and when i found that i was basically throwing up in the shop thankfully the bathroom was next door
this was the last thing i needed right now 😞 i fee so sick
i didnt want to say anything today either ive been holding this in and dealing since lunch time. i brought 2 faulty sims and then pop brought a broadband. so this is take 4 of setting up a new a sima and changing everything 😞
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outlanderSenior Contributor
and to make matters worse- when i checked the wound the bruise is nearly the same size as my hand @Former-Member and fluid is going abit green meaning i need to get it checked out 😞
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@outlanderit will just come up with the amount of data and recharge time. But if the bills are being sent to your house then he shouldn't have any access to it.
Hun , of course you are upset and feel sick, I would too. I am here to listen to whatever you need to get out. Just take your time with the phone, it will get sorted out and then I think you need to make self caring a bit of a must tonight sis. Will be right next to you ![]()
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outlanderSenior Contributor
@Former-Member@Former-Memberits all prepaid so no bills- never got them before so shouldnt matter.
im not having much luck am i 😞 i just want to crawl away and hide- but after i change my number. i sent pop down again with the right packaging and said make sure its this sim card with this company- if its not tell them its not the right one. i really cant go anywhere the way i am mentally atm so i really hope this time its the right one!
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