outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Hugs and hugs 💜 mh is abit of a cow.
I'm sorry Jasper hasn't been very well. Hopefully you can take him to the vets soon.
It's good hes finally using his new bed you brought him though @Sans911
I'm sorry Jasper hasn't been very well. Hopefully you can take him to the vets soon.
It's good hes finally using his new bed you brought him though @Sans911
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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It does sound like a trip to the vet is needed then @Sans911 Poor little fella being in pain is not good. It is horrible seeing our babies not well - hope it can be an easy fix for you both.
The test results today were good news with Cat - I was really concerned about her especially when the vet told me how much weight she has lost. It is hard to tell because she is fluffier than a normal short hair. Anytime I pick her up she feels light compared to Toby so it is hard to judge her weight. I gave her more biscuits tonight and will get some different food for her tomorrow. Then it is a matter of waiting a couple of weeks to weigh her again and see if she has put any weight on - otherwise ...more tests. I am hopeful that she will be okay though - she certainly seems okay within herself and is back to asking for food at her meal times.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I was wondering if anyone is around atm?
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hey @outlander ❤ How are you going?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Not really that great @CheerBear
Mostly frustrated and upset over my current situation,The expectations and realising even more just how little help I have
Mostly frustrated and upset over my current situation,The expectations and realising even more just how little help I have
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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You definitely have a lot you deal with @outlander 🙁 Did something happen today/tonight?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I keep being expected to do everything and be everywhere all the time @CheerBear there's only one of me 😞 I can't help but feel like I'm letting everyone down having to say no or shuffle things around to make things work.
I made a big group chat with all of my local family members asking if anyone could help for few days while in away having the op and literally one person said they could which is great however I'm also aware of how limited she is having work and a young child herself. Respite through some places is expensive And although I'm waiting on a response from another service I'm not holding my breath. And I'm also thinking he wouldn't cope being in that sort of setting which again makes it even harder.
Same with the horses. I have a horse who is a total a*se to say the least and no one wants to deal with her. I'm hoping with it being spring the grass will be a lot better and they would be ok for the 3 days and I can just get people to fill and feed my 2 ponies that are in a yard of there own.
I made a big group chat with all of my local family members asking if anyone could help for few days while in away having the op and literally one person said they could which is great however I'm also aware of how limited she is having work and a young child herself. Respite through some places is expensive And although I'm waiting on a response from another service I'm not holding my breath. And I'm also thinking he wouldn't cope being in that sort of setting which again makes it even harder.
Same with the horses. I have a horse who is a total a*se to say the least and no one wants to deal with her. I'm hoping with it being spring the grass will be a lot better and they would be ok for the 3 days and I can just get people to fill and feed my 2 ponies that are in a yard of there own.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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It's so disappointing when you ask for help and it's not there @outlander 🙁 So much hearing you with how hard it can be to try and be everywhere and for everyone. It's not possible and it's exhausting and can leave you burnt out and feeling not enough. It sucks.
Wish there was more I could say or do than "hearing you".
Wish there was more I could say or do than "hearing you".
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks for hearing me @CheerBear
It really does suck 😔😔
It really does suck 😔😔
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Totally sucks @outlander 🙁 You're doing the best you can with what you have (I try and tell myself that one which doesn't always help, but points for trying at least).
Hugs xx
