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rough time

rough time

is anyone around to talk to atm

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Evening sis 💜

@Sans911

I had a small group chat with some people about oils today but the facilitator keep loosing me. I cant really remember much about them except the ones shes suggested i try. Glad i wrote them down and bits about what they were! Was at her house for almost 3 hrs and only spoke in bits and pieces about the oils the rest i heard her life story. Seemed like a good therapy session for her 😞

What was your day like?

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I've had a busy day lil Sis. I did my walk first at the shopping centre. Then I had a knitting/crochet volunteer group where only one out of three people turned up.

And I did 4hours at the op shop this afternoon. It wasn't busy but I don't like sitting around so I pottered about finding things to do.
I'd not long been home and I went to my meditation group. Home relaxing in bed now.

Did you have a Dr's appointment today @outlander?

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Thats a busy day @Sans911 its a shame more people didn't turn up for your crochet/knitting group though.

No, no drs for me. Pop had one at the start of the week and they want to check his progress thr end of this week so ill need to make an appt for friday for him. I havent been to my gp for a while. She doesnt think its necessary much now. Same as my nurse. Seen them for about 10 minutes the other week just so i could get them to get ahold of these specialists they are sending me to. They didnt give me any contact details for them and i cannot find the clinic anywhere. Supposedly in one of the local hospitals.

To be honest im abit sick of health appts even though most of them are for pop they are so draining trying to remember everything etc. He has some good drs at least though. They explain things well and are thorough but I dread going to them.

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I'm sure you are sick of health appointments between you and your pop @outlander.

Has your day been okish or not really that great at all?

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You have both been busy.

@outlander

Some people are not aware about gaining "therapy" in other social situations ...

@Sans911

Thats a full day.

I am just home from across town, dancing class and cuddle with newbub. Very special moments.

I bought some quality essential oils when my own children were small. I still have a little ylangylang left.

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The days generally just feels like :pile_of_poo: @Sans911 but there isnt really a reason or a cause. It just kinda feels that way. Struggling abit with reality and knowing what is real or what my brain might be making up/way over thinking and with tomorrow being an aniversary i guess maybe its just all gotten mixed up together ....

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Sounds like a nice day for you @Appleblossom 💗💗

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That is true @Appleblossom the others were getting fidgety too but trying not to be rude. Better luck for next time huh..

Your day sounds nice though. Glad you got to give baby cuddles too. 🐣

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Thanks @Sans911 @outlander

It was quiet and meaningful, though I spent almost 3 hours driving.

There was a photoshoot at dancing where I was dressed as a man .... medieval costume with huge drapey sleeves and hat ... I found my inner diva ... and had a little fun joking about cross dressing... very posey ... they want to advertise themselves ...I wont be following through cos the style is still too hard on my neck ...

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I'm not trying to invalidate you @outlander but tommorow's anniversary is a past event. It doesn't need to be repeated or even given much thought. You have moved past that time. Since I've known you, you have moved forward in small amounts. There have been changes in the way that you think and behave. So you aren't quite the same person as before. Although you're a little 'stuck in a rut' situation right now, it won't be this way forever. And you don't sit by and do nothing. You take matters into your hands and find things to occupy your mind and build skills that will help shape your future. You are strong, determined and courageous. Hang in there lil Sis. I understand now is not easy, but there is a different life to come for you. Let that comfort you and keep you looking forward instead of backwards. Big squishy 🤗 💕💕💕🌹💕🌹🌹🌹💕
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