outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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There are different ways of being true to oneself. I do not believe it is a b&W thing ... as we also have to allow the self to learn new things and ways of being. That is why I suggested some acknowledgment of the negatives in the world ... so that you feel you have to deny the negative stuff .. just be vague about it ... so you dont need to get up people's noses ... @outlander
I have never had the common sense to be able to say "I dont feel confortable answering that" .. @Sans911 ... I am terribly wired to please ... and give what they want ... I am learning to be more mindful how to stand my ground and not give it all away ...
I am watching Nordic noir atm ... the Bridge and I can relate more to Saga than most women ... its good there are more depictions of different types of personality that in the ole Hollywood ... stereotypes ...
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thank you sis, that is true. If i need to ill try to keep the conversation on them hopefully with quite a few people there the conversation will be a little more flowing though @Sans911
Yeah its the questions that get me the most, they are quite pushy and probing as well wanting information. most of the time i try to say yep thats a good idea even if i dont think itll suit me. last time we had abit of a discussion about something and it become a little heated becasue they were pushing their view if what i SHOULD be doing not what i wanted to do so i think ill jsut agree and say 'thanks for the suggestions ill keep them in mind'from now on.
Yeah its the questions that get me the most, they are quite pushy and probing as well wanting information. most of the time i try to say yep thats a good idea even if i dont think itll suit me. last time we had abit of a discussion about something and it become a little heated becasue they were pushing their view if what i SHOULD be doing not what i wanted to do so i think ill jsut agree and say 'thanks for the suggestions ill keep them in mind'from now on.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks @Appleblossom that is true. yes i dont really want to get up peoples noses, it causes unneccessary drama however it depends on the topic, i can be quite adamant about things lol.
i havent heard of Nordic Noir, i had a quick search though and it sounds likes its interesting
i havent heard of Nordic Noir, i had a quick search though and it sounds likes its interesting
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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I too am very much a people pleaser @Appleblossom, but sometimes people can get too darn personal. That's about the only situation I use it in, and I've not used it much.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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how are you guys going tonight? hows your day been?
@Zoe7 @Sans911 @Appleblossom @Former-Member
@Zoe7 @Sans911 @Appleblossom @Former-Member
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Quiet day for me - lots of sleeping and watching footy @outlander
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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whose team is winning? @Zoe7
Do you have much on tomorrow?
Do you have much on tomorrow?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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The team I am going for is winning which is not good news for Sherry @outlander but still plenty of time to go.
I am heading to my parents' place for lunch tomorrow - might even put some rabbit ears on Toby for the occasion lol
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Unknown userMember
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Quiet day here too @outlander
My Swans are being outplayed as we talk. @Zoe7
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Aww he would make a super cute bunny! i bet he brings lots of smiles to peoples faces when he is around @Zoe7
