outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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Thankyou so much for caring @Former-Member
will read email tomorrow.
I’m too exhausted to read
❤️
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thsts true @MDT
Yes definently @Sans911 i find it abit hard to adjust back to this time though. Ill be right in a week or so but its put my body clock out of whack. Strange considering i dont sleep much anyway..
Hugs and hugs @Former-Member your more than welcome to talk here anytime you need to. I dont know what to say that might help but im here for you
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@CheerBear how are you?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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My mum has gone back to her accommodation now @outlander so I'm around for a while if you want to talk.
I'm a little better today with company and mum's idle chatter to occupy my brain.
I know a lot of my sadness and lows come from an intense feelings of hollowness and loneliness. I can be alone with my own company but I miss others company too. Although I'm an introvert, and shy away from too much action, I miss just being with someone. I've rarely belonged to any group of people in my life, and that's hard to deal with. I've always felt like an outsider looking in. I have a sense that life is possibly like this for you as well.
I'm a little better today with company and mum's idle chatter to occupy my brain.
I know a lot of my sadness and lows come from an intense feelings of hollowness and loneliness. I can be alone with my own company but I miss others company too. Although I'm an introvert, and shy away from too much action, I miss just being with someone. I've rarely belonged to any group of people in my life, and that's hard to deal with. I've always felt like an outsider looking in. I have a sense that life is possibly like this for you as well.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im glad your little better today sis.
Yeah your right i feel like indont belong and more like an outsider too. Definently hearing you on that one. It is so tough isnt it.
Im an introvert too so maybe youll relate to this too.. but sometimes when the saddness and things come in im stuck between i want to be on my own but I could also do with some company too. Both places feel quite isolating though esp with the lack of belonging or lack of understanding from others. Is that the same for you too?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Sans911
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Yes, it's the same for me @outlander. Even in a group of people I can feel isolated or alone. Company comes with its own difficulties, and sometimes it is easy to engage but other times it can be really hard work and exhausting.
But my loneliness is worse at night, and weekends. I might go out, but it mostly alone. And it hurts to see others enjoying themselves, enjoying being part of a group, being liked, loved and respected. So I often stay home, which just compounds things.
There's no easy solution.
But my loneliness is worse at night, and weekends. I might go out, but it mostly alone. And it hurts to see others enjoying themselves, enjoying being part of a group, being liked, loved and respected. So I often stay home, which just compounds things.
There's no easy solution.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I couldnt have said it better myself @Sans911
It can feel so complicated with mixed feelings no matter which way you turn.
I know it isnt the same thing but youll always be loved and accepted by me and i know others here feel the same too. Sending a really warm squishy hug to you.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I would also be 'liking' these posts from you guys but the button doesn't work on my phone
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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👋 @Faith-and-Hope and those under the support button
