outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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my mother is making things harder and harder. i dont do lies well. its like digging yourself into a deeper hole and thats exactly whats happening as we speak. its no wonder people have bad opinions on our family. its making me feel sick. ive tried pulling her up on it. no one listens
i so badly want to run and hide away.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Hugs lil Sis @outlander. I know it won't be easy, but try to slow down your thoughts and fears. Slow down your breathing before you have a panic attack.
I'm sorry your mother continues to make life difficult for you. I wish it wasn't that way for you. You can only change the way you react to your mother, you can't change her reaction or words. That's super tough to be around. Try not to react in anger or fear. You will be the better person in time. It will be difficult for you be this way, but I have faith in you.
Hugs and hugs ❤️ 💜
I'm sorry your mother continues to make life difficult for you. I wish it wasn't that way for you. You can only change the way you react to your mother, you can't change her reaction or words. That's super tough to be around. Try not to react in anger or fear. You will be the better person in time. It will be difficult for you be this way, but I have faith in you.
Hugs and hugs ❤️ 💜
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 @outlander 
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Hiya @Snowie. How is your Friday?
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Just got home @Sans911 . Had a funeral to go to today.
How are you going?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Yes that's right. I forgot. Not a nice thing to have to go to.
Quiet day for me at home. I've done a bit of study this afternoon, and I'm just about to have a shower and go to my therapist appt. Then I have a volunteer games night tonight.
I'm still feeling really low. And I've almost lost all motivation for my studies. I feel really stuck right now, still wanting to give up. I deliberately missed my pdoc appt this week.
Quiet day for me at home. I've done a bit of study this afternoon, and I'm just about to have a shower and go to my therapist appt. Then I have a volunteer games night tonight.
I'm still feeling really low. And I've almost lost all motivation for my studies. I feel really stuck right now, still wanting to give up. I deliberately missed my pdoc appt this week.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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I am glad you have your therapist appt. @Sans911
It is good that you are still connecting here, I know how much of a struggle that has been in the past.
Hugs n hugs for you hun, it is so hard when we feel down and cannot see a way out. You are in my thoughts.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 @Snowie @Former-Member
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Hi @outlander .. Are you feeling a little less overwhelmed this evening?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander I'm out right now lil Sis but I'll be home in about 3hours. I'll coming looking for you then OK?
