outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks sis. Im not sure as the main things sounds silly and kinda hard to say @Snowie just feel like a burden to everyone
I ended up at kmart and a drive and walk around with mum and the kids and we had lunch out as well so was ok in that part.
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Unknown userMember
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Very unwell all day @outlander Lying down alot. Sleep was terrible last night.
New day tomorrow
I’m just heading off to see if dinner is cooked yet. Haven’t eaten today.
💖
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Eating something sounds like a good idea @Former-Member try to get something in your system.
Hopefully itll help with that yuk feeling too
Hopefully itll help with that yuk feeling too
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Glad your day has ended up ok @outlander
We can talk about anything hun, but nothing is silly.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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its kinda hard to talk about one thing @Snowie in a way i think ive upset some people here, i dont know for sure but im getting some of those signs most people give off so its making it hard to be here and knowing where i feel i can interact.
i really feel so alone in life which hasnt helped with the things happening here but also today during a conversation i asked if someone could run and grab my wallet out of the car while i putting my boot and shoe on and they kept saying no and i said please i do stuff for you and they said oh yeah what? and when i gave an example the response was 'i never asked you do to that so its your choice' it hurt alot more becasue it was someone in my immediate family- sorry i dont really want to say which person though.
things with pop keep getting tougher and im failing at it. at all of it, i cant even make an appointment to speak to his gp to get him help. i am failing him as his granddaughter and caregiver.
i really feel so alone in life which hasnt helped with the things happening here but also today during a conversation i asked if someone could run and grab my wallet out of the car while i putting my boot and shoe on and they kept saying no and i said please i do stuff for you and they said oh yeah what? and when i gave an example the response was 'i never asked you do to that so its your choice' it hurt alot more becasue it was someone in my immediate family- sorry i dont really want to say which person though.
things with pop keep getting tougher and im failing at it. at all of it, i cant even make an appointment to speak to his gp to get him help. i am failing him as his granddaughter and caregiver.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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sorry im being really selfish, ive had more than my fair share of support here. please dont worry about me
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WennaSenior Contributor
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Hi @outlander, its Wenna one of the weekend moderators, I am going to send you an email to check in with you.
Cheers,
Cheers,
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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ohhhh my sister @outlander, sitting with you and hugs
in a way i think ive upset some people here-- how my darling xoxoxo
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Hun you are not being selfish. If these things are important to you and worrying you then that is the main reason why we all need support at times.
It is hard on here when we feel like we have upset people. Most of the time it isn't the case and we read into things. I think it is our insecurities that sometimes make us feel this way.
It's a shame a family member has spoken to you hun. It shows that they don't appreciate all you have done for them. I know it must be hard to hear something like that.
Honestly @outlander, I think you carry so much on your shoulders hun. You are a great care giver to your Pop with all that you do for him, but sometimes we cannot see that ourselves. We just think we are messing up all the time. Don't be so hard on yourself sweetie. But I know that it is so hard to do at times.
Squishy big hugs hun 
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @outlander
You sound really upset. Sounds like its been a tough day. I understand that.
What I do not understand, is what makes you think you have upset anyone here? What signs or feelings are causing you to believe that?
Of course you do know that our depression and anxiety can cause us to misinterpret things sometimes, dont you? I do know that everyone here is very fond of you, and that many (including me) have a real soft spot for you. You have many supporters here, and in turn, you support many of us.
Despite how you currently feel, you are much loved here and you will have support here for as long as you need it or want it.
You are always so sweet and caring, I simply cannot imagine you upsetting anyone here. Just keep in mind that we are all dealing with MH issues and sometimes misunderstandings can occur. And there are also times that some of us may not always be in a state of mind that we can always respond to posts, even if we want to.
Please come back and talk if you'd like to. @Snowie@Former-Member If you dont feel able to, I hope @Wenna can offer you some help and reassurance.
Take care sweetie.
Sherry 💕💕
