outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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is anyone around atm?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Hi @outlander Just logged on and thought I would check your regular haunt ...
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Hello @Appleblossom
Thanks for checking in ❤
Thanks for checking in ❤
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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How are things today? @outlander
My day was pleasant.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im glad your day was good and i also read the upcoming week is quieter for you too which will be good @Appleblossom
Im not really doing that well. Life and its pressures are increasing. Its to much but i cant do much about it. Life is defeating me.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Would you like to talk about the pressures. I think it is sad when you say LIFE is defeating you. To me you seem like a fighter of the best sort.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Life is defeating me @Appleblossom
I really dont have much fight left.
Im responsible for many things and its increasing again and i cant do anything about it. I keep thinking.. hoping... that life would get better. But it doesnt.
I cant turn off anymore. My worries are exhausting and half the time i dont know what is real and what isnt or at least to the extent im worrying about them on the news latley is all about dog attacks and its so triggerring and its makng things alot worse.. I dont sleep much because of dreams either trauma related or strange upsetting dreams about anything and everythingm I am on the edge constantly trying to maintain a balance on one foot so i dont crumble and fall.
I really dont have much fight left.
Im responsible for many things and its increasing again and i cant do anything about it. I keep thinking.. hoping... that life would get better. But it doesnt.
I cant turn off anymore. My worries are exhausting and half the time i dont know what is real and what isnt or at least to the extent im worrying about them on the news latley is all about dog attacks and its so triggerring and its makng things alot worse.. I dont sleep much because of dreams either trauma related or strange upsetting dreams about anything and everythingm I am on the edge constantly trying to maintain a balance on one foot so i dont crumble and fall.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Responsibility is extra difficult when you dont have a say about what and how. Can you push back on those making demands? In the carer terminology it is about putting boundaries in place.
Sometimes it is important to back off from news sites. I check the news regularly now, as I want to stay in touch, but for many years I really did not have time.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I cant @Appleblossom
I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. Its hard to explain abit due to anonymity reasons.
I dont watch much news or go on fb much but every time i do lately thats the only thing that keeps popping up. All the time so i refresh and theres another one. I thought id gotten rid of the news sites but obviously not...
People are angry at me all the time. Nothing seems to be good enough. Like today i was driving and i over took someone snd i got the patience lecture and the rest all the way home. And i keep getting told to get a job because caring for pop isn't one
Im missing and worrying about some people here too like snowie who i knows in hospital but havent heard from her in quite a while.
I dont know what else I am suppose to do Apple but im struggling to hold myself together.
