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Cards for the day

Cards for the day

Jeepers kreepers, Has'nt this forums changed for the absolute better in the past couple of years........

I feel people are more meaningful.......

I have changed my self care to the better as well,,,,,last time we saw our wonderful Relationships Australia therapist, we chose cards on how we feel about ourselves.

For us...Mr g and me.....we chose two cards each on how we feel about how the relationship is......

I thought......maybe I could start a thread on what cards we would choose for ourselves for the day in lived Experience forum??

Just creatively think of a word that you feel that will be something for you to focus on for the day !!

So, lets think of two cards that we would choose for ourselves ..either in our relationship with our children or pets or ...partner or......even the plants around us.......or with the Forum !!

This morning: I would choose Balance & Focus.

Focus because I have LOTS to do and I am not focusing on what I am meant to do these days.

Balance because I'm better if I feel like I'm being heard when I do my bits and pieces and not think that I'm a waste of time.

@Former-Member @Former-Member @Former-Member @Shaz51 @utopia @Appleblossom @Mazarita @Former-Member@Sahara @Neb @Bunniekins@Belen @Former-Member @TAB @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope @eth @Former-Member @Queenie@outlander @Bubbles3 @Bimby2 @soul @Dec, @Fee1 @Former-Member @Adge, @oceangirl, @Flower1 @CheerBear @Zoe7 @dands26

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omg... @Former-Member your words are great.....

I really like disipline. I wish there was more out there for ourselves hey.....I wish I had more dicipline in my daily program.........

Grace is a beautiful word........

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yeah .. Show me some Discipline as the Sunny Boys once said. @PeppiPatty

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@PeppiPatty Hi PeppiPatty I think forgiveness is a personal thing each to their own. Sometimes I just have to forgive regardless of what evils were done to me otherwise I get bitter and hateful and I would feel 'they' have won. For me I would hate them to see me focusing all my energy on hating them when I could be enjoying the most simplest of pleasures like I am right now sitting here and talking to you and having a cup of coffee.

Like I said each to their own. Everyone deals with pain in their own way and for me forgiveness (not forgetting mind) works.

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My two focus words for today would be
Hope - i hope that now one decision has been made that mr. can work towards achieving happiness surrounding the decision

My second word would be understanding
I believe that sometimes we struggle to understand why things happen.
Understanding -

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Oh @TAB

The SunnyBoys rule......we were listening to them a couple of days ago!!

@Bunniekins I am so sorry.....please forgive my thoughtlessness.....it's a difficult month...December and I didnt think of your own journey. I thought of only me.

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@PeppiPatty You're right PeppiPatty

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Compassion and courage.

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💜 @Fee1 ..... 👋

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Dear @Former-Member

It is definately my stuff.... @Bunniekins pionted this out for me........forgiveness and acceptness is something that I find so hard......both @Bunniekins and you are so much stronger than me.......Even today.... I found it hard to forgive Mr g for something so silly and I went out for about 4 hours and it was unfair of me.... I turned off my mobile and gave no warning to Mr g......then I went to a cafe and had a coffee........when I got home he was very upset..........

Mr g and I have rules.....if I need a break by all means but to keep the mobile on in case he gets paranoid.....

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