when is your Birthday

said that it's really not scary...-- it`s not @Adge

Good to see a fellow fish on board @Adge haha

Gee, your just young lad. I am just a tad bit older hee....at 56 years 😲😜

I am happier now than I was in my 40s and more confident so fear not! I think the secret is we start to mellow after 50 and it's Que Sara Sara type attitude, trying not to worry as much helps mostly to distress and feel young. I like to keep reasonably active without over doing it and enjoy hobbies and volunteer work. All has helped me feel better with age. I have known people in my 40s that were very fitness conscious and now at the same age as myself have aches and pains (wear and tear). So I keep moving but it's easy does it.

So no, it's not scary - it's living until we drop 👍😊

Excellent @Former-Member Good to hear.

I don't have to wait for any aches & pains, I've had those for over 25 years already (scoliosis). More recently, 3 major bowel surgeries (2 emergencies).

As for mellowing, I've always been shy & rather mellowed, So I was needing to find that "second wind", rather than mellowing any more...

I can tick the mid-life crisis box off too, I've already had several of those (a few years ago) - so I don't need any more of those...

Adge

HI, @Shaz51 Birthday day page, what a good idea although I would rather not have to think about them as that means I'm a year older lol. Mine is 24th of Feb. Oh goodness, that is not far away.

Pisces everywhere. Another fellow fish here. Out of everyone i have known, March would have to easily be the most common. I think it says a lot about what people do in winter, being roughly 9 months before. lol

thanks @Heavenbound xx

Hello @Adge, @Former-Member, @Former-Member

@Former-Member, when is your birthday -- day and month

Hey @Shaz51 I'll lock in March, somewhere a bit below the middle...... but not low enough to be a bit above the start. Definitely too low to be a bit below the end.

*insert Ralph Wiggum "I'm helping" meme. March 11.

Hello dear @Shaz51

Just meant to say that I don't do birthdays now as it's a reminder of my abusive mother. Appreciate the gesture my friend but would be grateful if no mention of my birthday was made on the day on the forums here. Thank you.

My friends and family do not really get why I don't do birthdays anymore but I know you will understand. I am letting go of all that is negative in my life, things and people now for my own well being. Letting go of my mother is not remembering my birth or being reminded. It's just another day to me. Thank you for your understanding. Hope all is well in your world 😊