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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello Everyone
I am the Birthday Keeper of the forum and I am looking for everyone`s birthday to celebrate your day weather small or BIG as you like with your friends here , so let me know when your birthday is
@frog, @BambiFawn, @Former-Member, @Determined, @Catcakes, @aButterfly, @Mazarita, @Former-Member, @Queenie, @Smc, @MDT, @Silenus , @Owlunar, @Former-Member and everyone else
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
We will give you one @Leglessfrog078
and Happy Belated Birthday for Novemver @Hope4me
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Hope4meSenior Contributor
@Leglessfrog078
That's a sad state of affairs frog. Have you told them how it hurt to be overlooked? Sending you a belated bunch of flowers...
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Leglessfrog078Senior Contributor
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@Leglessfrog078 @Hope4me
HAPPY LATE BIRTHDAY WISHES I HOPE "-GR8 SURPRISES"- THEY LAST 4 EVER!!
Love & Birthday Hugs!
Bella XO 🙂 
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@Shaz51 @Hope4me
My Birthday is not a good date, nor a good time for me, never has been! NEVER will be, nuh no way!!!! :womanfrustrated:
My Birthday is either, forgotten, over-looked, too close to Christmas Day, too close to New Years Eve, or I was given a gift on Christmas Day, & always told (as a child) this is for your Birthday, & for your Christmas present?
I have 5 other sibblings, whom always received the same, value/or same gift, as myself on Christmas Day ? Plus on their Birthdays I watched as they all received Birthday Presents, plus Birthday Parties! 
Plus to add flame to the fire- I have only 2 days to live my new year! Then Poooofffffff goneeeeeeeeeeeee Next year starts!!!!!!!!!!!
MY BIRTHDAY is the -30th December- each year!!!
I don't like my Birthday!! no way! 😞
SO THERE!
Love & Hugs
Bella XO 🙂
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
We will have your birthday here @Former-Member
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@Shaz51 @Leglessfrog078 @Hope4me @Former-Member @BambiFawn @outlander @Former-Member @Sans911 @eugdemonism @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member
I like this thread it has brought many together, chatting & reminiscing.
I can handle not having a Birthday Party, as my mum saved a ladies life while carrying me, in her womb.
Mum was 3 months into the pregnancy. Mum still wanted to work, while working, my mum watched as a lady with a very long pony tail, getting caught by her hair, being pulled into a machine that would have taken her head, & face off!
Mum being the Strong & caring woman that she is, went straight without a second thought. Mum grabbed the ladies hair, which it was up to the sharp blades, of this rolling crushing machine. She pulled the ladies hair, as hard & as strong as she could, with no regard of her own safety, with both hands!
Mum managed to save the Lady life, not without shocking consequences tho. 😞
Mum lost 3 fingers on her right hand, the lady most of her right side of her face, skin & hair.
Mum was rewarded for her bravery, her care, towards another person. I was delivered on the 30th December not my natural due date, being estimated, the end of January.
mum spent a very long time recovering from all the loss of finger, 2 were sown back on, ring finger right hand, was inoperable no hope. I never known my mum with a, ring finger right hand, & she looks, & is perfect, in my eyes!
My oldest sister, & my oldest cousin, would do for me what my Mum could not. I had 2 Foster Mums!
All I wanted & need is my Hero Mum tho!
Mum could never hold, or hug me, she told me that GOD Blessed her by giving her ME!
I was so good, quiet, no fuss, no crying, no screaming, not demanding, would sleep until woken, would just sit on chair & not fall off or try to get off. No nothing!
Help, maybe I am a Doll & never knew it!!??
Any way, now you know why I am 30th December each year.
I never need a Birthday Party, or any gifts. I have my Mum, she is everything & more to ME, & to GOD! Amen <>< XO 🙂
Love & Hugs!
Bella! XO 🙂
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
wow @Former-Member, thank you for sharing your story with us
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