LSevenContributor
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LSevenContributor
If you feel you're not getting the right advice, what do you do?
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QueenieSenior Contributor
@LSeven, Hi there just seeing your post now and thought I'd reply.
If you are not happy with the way your counselling sessions are going, remember you are not obligated to stay with the same counsellor. You can change and find one hopefully that suits you. There are quite a few of us here on the forums that have had more than one counsellor/therapist because previous ones didn't suit (myself included). I am still on the hunt myself actually. I used up my 10 sessions with a psychologist and upon reflection, it wasn't a good experience, as she would often cry with me (I think that blurs patient/therapist boundaries a bit).
Is there something in particular you are looking for from a counsellor?
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tennisstarSenior Contributor
Hi there @LSeven,
If you feel the advice you're receiving is not sitting right with you, it's best to be transparent with the person you're talking with and voice your concerns. If the person you're communicating with is a mental health or other professional, you can also request to see another one. Finding someone that you can connect with and receive guidance from that is congruent with your needs and fosters your personal growth is important, so it's well worth searching for it. If it's in relation to a psychologist, you can search the Australian Psychological Society (APS) website and plug in what areas of expertise you're after by clicking here. I hope you find this information helpful.
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