@Bunniekins Oh, I didn't know you didn't know I am aspie.
I figured it out myself about 4 years ago and then paid to get a formal assessment done because, you know, no one believes you unless an "expert" says what you already know. 
My aspieness complicates my muddle a LOT. I can see that a lot of what was shoved under the very heavily stigmatized BPD diagnosis was (and is) aspie stuff. Eighteen years in therapy, 40+ psychiatric admissions and not one mental health professional picked up the tinsy tiny detail of AUTISM!!! Grrrrrrrrrrr!
@Queenie where I got my blanket from, there was the option to have doona-type material in it as well as the weighted stuff. I chose not to do that so that it wouldn't be too hot in summer. It is only on the ridiculously hot nights in the middle of summer that it is too hot.