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I don't feel quite right today. Had my son stay over last night - which I enjoyed. But as soon as I woke up, I didn't want him here. I was feeling anxious. Didn't feel like I could do what I wanted in my own home, while he was here. Not that I do anything at all. My days are empty. Finally by 4oclock I told him it was time to go. I feel like a terrible mum, person for saying that. But I had to have my space back. Just me here. He's been gone 3 hours but I still feel ... off. Not sure what's wrong with me. But I'll take a prn calming tablet in a minute and hope that helps. Feel very teary, but can't cry. Feel very bored, but no motivation to do anything. I hope tomorrow is a better day.
Seconding that wish for a better day for you tomorrow, @utopia. I know far too well the feeling of being bored but no motivation for doing anything. I've been more down lately than usual too, sleeping a huge amount especially. Psychiatrist is upping AD dose. Hoping for the best for your ongoing journey.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@Mazarita I hope the increase in your AD's works quickly for you.
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Phoenix_RisingSenior Contributor
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Hi @utopia,
That sounds really tricky. It sounds like on the one hand you enjoy having your son around, but on the other hand you super need your space too. I wish I had something deep and meaningful to say...but I'm afraid I don't. However I did want to let you know that I'd read your post and I can hear how difficult today has been for you. I super hope tomorrow (which is less than four hours away here in Sydney) is a brighter day.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Thank you @Phoenix_Rising. Think today is just a high anxiety day.
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @utopia
I can feel the same when I am very anxious. Wanting space because I just can't seem to deal with any added pressure - everything overwhelms me. Is that how you feel? Have you been particularly worried about something or just feeling flat?
I have had a particularly hard couple of weeks struggling that way but am slowly starting to pick up again. I hope you do too soon. And that tomorrow will be one of your better days. Thinking of you 💕
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member just feeling a bit overwhelmed - like my space is being invaded.
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