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MDTSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
You are not going to get kicked out of here buddy. You are hurting and you are voicing your feelings here - that is okay - you can chat away as much as you like about how you are feeling - and we will listen - we just cannot advocate on your behalf on the other site - and even if we could, we wouldn't because that is your place and only your place to do that.
In the meantime @Former-Member we are here listening.
How was your last visit with the kids - did they love their chrissie presents?
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
@Former-Member
We already know that it's not fair and you keep repeating that you didn't do anything and if you can't get past that then what do you want?
You don't like it here - that's new and I heard it - you want to go back to RO but you can't and maybe I see why you have been banned
I get it
You may not like it here but a bunch of people have been trying to help you - and I feel that it pretty rough on them when they are - we are - trying to find out why you are distressed - we know you have been banned and you feel it's unjust and you broke the other sites guidelines
But what else can we do? I am amazed at how much people work to help each other here - perhaps you have a couple of choices you don't really like but as people have said - wait out the two weeks and try with them again
Or try and settle down and throw in your lot with us - we are not bad - we do our best anyway
Or sit it out alone
atm you are stuck and it's so hard to know how to help
Dec
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I am so glad the pressies made them happy @Former-Member What did you end up getting them?
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Aw now @Former-Member
Don't try and make it happen - people are free to exhange and express their feelings here and there are guidelines - best to learn those guidelines
You haven't been banned here yet so give it a try - what you are talking about here is called a Self-Confirming Prophesy - you seem to be settling down a bit and give us a try - how can that hurt?
You have the best part of two weeks to find out how we work here
It's up to you
Dec
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
you did really well then @Former-Member - did you go to Big W and Kmart?
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