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outlanderSenior Contributor
i can hear that @Former-Member but im not sure what else to do....
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
I have been reading your posts @Former-Member and I don't know what to do -
But you say
@Former-Member wrote:
i didn't do anything and they aren't listening
And other people here have been trying to find out what's happening - and trying to understand you and I have been reading and I can't understand either - though I might have missed something - that's true
It seems to me you aren't listening - and I know you are distressed but it seems also that you are really stuck in a bad place somewhere and my suggestion is that you do your best to calm down - not easy I know - and then tell us calmly what the main problem is
It seems to me that you have been banned from another site but why keep on shouting about it? I would not be part of a group that was banning me whatever it was - and I have moved on in my own life
Perhaps it's time for you to move on - if you can calm down I am sure you can find a place here - and I have read where you have communicated with other people here on a couple of different subjects - so why not settle yourself down and forget about this other site and share with us
I understand this is hard for you but if you want the help you seem badly to need then start again here and establish some contacts you can rely on
Take it easy and calm down - a lot of people have heard you I am sure
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@Former-Member I can only once again say we are here for you but echo what both @Owlunar and @outlander (and myself ) have said to you many times - you cannot do anything about the ban on that other site - none of us can. If you continue to get 'stuck' in this 'but I haven;t done anything wrong' mentality then you may infact be not seeing what is staring you directly in the face - and that is that you DID do something to breach the quidelines there but you are not accepting that you may have been at fault. One of the nice things about age comes wisdom - and that is to be able to recognise and accept when you have 'messed up' - even in a very small way - and try to move past it.
We cannot provide a more encouraging and supportive environment for you here than what we have done since you joined - and I, for one, are very happy that you did join us here, but the only one that can resolve this issue for you is YOU - try to remove yourself from the situaion and ask what advice you would give to someone who is in the same situation as you - I would imagine yoiu would present as a lot calmer and more objective Jay 
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