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MDTSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Hey @Former-Member thought I'd drop in here to check on you 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
no i wouldnt be too happy about being banned again unless i done something really badly @Former-Member
hope its only a short while?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
hmm that is a bit strange actually @Former-Member
a chat? is that like the topic tuesdays we have here where its on a certain topic and we can ask questions and talk about our experiences?
did they say why they banned you? i am really not sure why they would ban you over running a chat?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
did you get angry and start yelling and swearing at them? @Former-Member remember we talked about that...... cool and calm down alittle before responding so you dont get in the deep end.....
it is a shame they had to of banned you tonight though when your chat was suppose to be on
how long is your ban for?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@Former-Member there are 2 completely separate issues that you are combining into one here.
Firstly you are disappointed that what you were going to run tonight could not happen tonight - they are not saying never - just when you are back - so that is not an issue.
Secondly - you are frustrated with them but I suspect just as much with yourself as the ban has meant something you were really looking forward to has had to be postponed. You are actually feeling like you let yourself and others down by getting banned again.
As the other times before @Former-Member - the time will pass. It is ok to let your emotions out here but in a constructive way.
I suspect you are still running on full adrenalin so can you think of that calm landscape where the water ripples slowly through the rocks - take a coupleof deep breaths and tell me what the topic tonight was goingto be about 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
@Former-Membertake a few breaths, try not to get angry on here ok...
we are trying to help you...
instead of focussing on how much RO has annoyed you which is really understandable what about focussing on something else?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I can see how angry you are by what the way you are writing @Former-Member but we both know that isn't going to get you any closer to what you want. We have had this discussion before about your culture - quite a good discussion in-fact about how proud you are of you heritage. Talk to me about that - something that you are not only proud of but feel passionate about.
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