MDTSenior Contributor
what a horrible day
can't take this anymore... i need help!
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idk who else to tag..
help me please 😞
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what a horrible day
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Re: what a horrible day
Maybe postpone the Worry on that one @MDT until uni is finished and your life takes on a different pattern, hopefully involving earning an independent living and being able to do more of what you would like to do re personal goals ......
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MDTSenior Contributor
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thats true @Faith-and-Hope
But i don't know about what I can do now (as in the next few weeks) to make myself feel better about my life, myself and everything else...
At the moment it all seems really dark and useless
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Is there something you can volunteer for for a few days @MDT ? It can help to place your focus in some "for others" direction and take it completely off yourself ..... that is not suggesting in any way that you are
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Whoops .... phone-fumble .....
.... that is not suggesting in any way that you are doing anything wrong, it's just another approach to postponing worry, and taking yourself out of a mind-chatter storm.
@MDT
.... that is not suggesting in any way that you are doing anything wrong, it's just another approach to postponing worry, and taking yourself out of a mind-chatter storm.
@MDT
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MDTSenior Contributor
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@Faith-and-Hope
I have no idea.. volunteering puts me of because i feel like a failure if i do it.. i feel like i could be much happier working and getting paid.. but it scares me.. it sounds pathetic (because it is) but i just freak out about it all..
Everyone is going well. I am not. I will graduate and be crap at life.
I have no idea.. volunteering puts me of because i feel like a failure if i do it.. i feel like i could be much happier working and getting paid.. but it scares me.. it sounds pathetic (because it is) but i just freak out about it all..
Everyone is going well. I am not. I will graduate and be crap at life.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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i dunno what i am doing..
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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They are perfectly normal insecurities to be experiencing at your age @MDT ..... spoken as a mum of five young adults now ...., even women at my age who are re-entering the workforce after raising their kids are faced with the same insecurities.
Can you speak to a uni counsellor about the way you feel ? They may be able to offer you more practical support with this.
Maybe a part-time job will help to bridge you from graduation into full-time work.
Can you speak to a uni counsellor about the way you feel ? They may be able to offer you more practical support with this.
Maybe a part-time job will help to bridge you from graduation into full-time work.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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Uni counsellors are a no go. They are useless.
I dont need any more help in that department.
I have lost hope tbh @Faith-and-Hope
The gap between graduation and full time work doesnt phase me because the only full time work i will get is a graduate offer. I can adapt to that easily because it is something i want to do. I can tell already that i wont get anywhere. I am just going to end up in admin. Waste of a degree.
I've wasted my time with this crap.
I dont need any more help in that department.
I have lost hope tbh @Faith-and-Hope
The gap between graduation and full time work doesnt phase me because the only full time work i will get is a graduate offer. I can adapt to that easily because it is something i want to do. I can tell already that i wont get anywhere. I am just going to end up in admin. Waste of a degree.
I've wasted my time with this crap.
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BambiFawnSenior Contributor
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you have given dear @MDT, some wise counsel dear lovely @Faith-and-Hope. Huggies. This is a pic of my daughter's kitten. He is a purebred Ragdoll.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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i am sorry you are feeling this way about it @MDT. What can you do for the rest of the day to look after yourself ? It's almost the weekend and that usually changes the pace of life for the week. Maybe log in to Friday Feast and hang out there with other forumites for a while. The whacky humour might help to lift your mood a bit.
