outlanderSenior Contributor
I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
I dont know how much longer i can keep going on like this anymore. I feel completely defeated right about now
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I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Sounds good @Former-Member my favourite spot is by the fire sharing stories. Want to come join me.
Think ill log off in a minute cause the rooms spinning and hoping if i keep my eyes closed long enough and fo ro happy place ill just fall asleep
Make sure u rest up too and get some sleep ok 💕💕
Goodnight all ❣
Think ill log off in a minute cause the rooms spinning and hoping if i keep my eyes closed long enough and fo ro happy place ill just fall asleep
Make sure u rest up too and get some sleep ok 💕💕
Goodnight all ❣
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@outlanderof course I will join you sweetheart. I am by your side even when not on here. Log off and try to get some sleep, even though I know it is so difficult. Goodnight sis 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks sis 💕 @Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
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@outlander,I suggest a heat pack on your back or on your stomach like @Former-Member said.
@Faith-and-Hope,I'm very depressed, and suffering anxiety with emotional distressed,knew yesterday when I was tired ,my mother is too much,and that's why I hesitated going on carers with the way I am and she is.Tried to tell her to mention to the doctor about her extreme confusion the other day with her urinary tract infection-bad mistake,made out I was making her out to be nuts, probably bit like your husband.Then she ranted all the way to the doctors about how I was towards her,and on the way back as well.Its all geared at the way I treat her,same as usual . She's leaving tomorrow to have Xmas with my siblings .I'm looking forward to the respite but worried about my mental health knowing this stress has triggered me.She also has to mention how basically it's hell with me compared to the other siblings.This infuriates me when I haven't been able to go anywhere on my own or have two minutes to myself past few days.One sister only makes the effort at Xmas for a day or so and lives 25 minutes away. I .Im still tired.Also seen the next door neighbours who I avoided in the drs in the supermarket and a person I worked with who I avoided because I have anger towards them.Im just a big failure and weak.
Spent last Xmas on the floor distressed,this year won't be any different. @Faith-and-Hope,if I can't live a life what's the point?
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks @TAB,maybe I need a swig of brandy from cooking in the cupboard .
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Oh no @Former-Member ..... that’s terrible !!
Yeah, really sucks and I can totally understand that you’re over it all .....
The thing I would like to be able to say to you, is don’t give her the sayisfaction ..... don’t give the lot of them the satisfaction ..... do everything you can to outlast this situation.
There will be some sort of inheritance for you when your mother passes, cos there is a house involved ..... so sell up and get out of there .....
In the meantime, throw everything you can behind outlasting it all .....
Breathe Hon .. and distract .... crank up some music and cook some popcorn or something ..... anything to get them all out of your head.
Yeah, really sucks and I can totally understand that you’re over it all .....
The thing I would like to be able to say to you, is don’t give her the sayisfaction ..... don’t give the lot of them the satisfaction ..... do everything you can to outlast this situation.
There will be some sort of inheritance for you when your mother passes, cos there is a house involved ..... so sell up and get out of there .....
In the meantime, throw everything you can behind outlasting it all .....
Breathe Hon .. and distract .... crank up some music and cook some popcorn or something ..... anything to get them all out of your head.
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TABSenior Contributor
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Maybe. @Former-Member making me glad didn't go home soz. Sister is equipped to deal with it she has nothing to lose plus gets off on thinking shes the best child now lol
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TABSenior Contributor
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Just het through tonight and tomorrows another day @Former-Member . May have to be some self preservation there maybe
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Unknown userMember
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Don't know @Faith-and-Hope,never wanted this due to the way she can be,and the dementia is making her worse,she is going off constantly ranting past few days,my life is worthless,plus I'm down about no money .Seeing other people like the neighbours...I feel like they are laughing at me.My life is a joke,I'm a joke and my life is worthless.I have to go for a walk tomorrow,it's the only time I feel for me,and the only time I feel alive.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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So glad you have your walking @Former-Member ..... and that’s why I walk every day too.
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