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big or small 21st?

outlanderSenior Contributor18 Oct 2017, 4:09 pm AEDT

big or small 21st?

hi everyone

so mums just come home and she said what do you want to do on saturday? i said im not sure but will have a think about it.

she said do i want to have a big get together with all the family and i can invite friends (got none of those) but i really dont see my family that much and when i do they only want to see my pop.

ive arranged a hotel for a night on the sunday afterwards but mum wants to celebrate on my actualy 21st which is saturday coming

im torn as i know shes trying to help but i really dont want a major thing despite it supose to be a big deal

any ideas?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor19 Oct 2017, 8:04 pm AEDT

Re: big or small 21st?

No we will arrange it @outlander , you just have to come xoxo

Party time @Queenie, @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Zoe7, @CheerBear for saturday xx

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Oct 2017, 8:06 pm AEDT

Re: big or small 21st?

alright @Shaz51

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QueenieSenior Contributor19 Oct 2017, 8:07 pm AEDT

Re: big or small 21st?

We can all sign a virtual 21 key for @outlander. What do you think @Shaz51? I still have my key from decades ago.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor19 Oct 2017, 8:10 pm AEDT

Re: big or small 21st?

great idea @Queenie

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Zoe7Senior Contributor19 Oct 2017, 8:14 pm AEDT

Re: big or small 21st?

@Shaz51 can you do me a favour here and not tag me again please - can't cope with the date

sorry @outlander

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