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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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Maybe i am paranoid. When i post everyone goes quiet. Don't think i have 2heads 🌷

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Pretty sure you don't have 2 heads @Former-Member. But you have crazy dreams😜 Only joking. My iPad died on me unexpectedly. I hope your day is ok. I'm about to head out shopping for some paint and stuff I need. Really should look at getting toilet seat mark 2 as well, possible an idea to get one that fits this time 😂 How things going for you. Saw you fixed your door, good job on that. 😊💜

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😊 Yeah .... ok .... das me ...... ❣

I started my family with three kids under two years old .... twins born close behind a single .... one twin with special needs landing in open-heart surgery at 7 months ..... husband a workaholic .... MIL passive-aggressive witch (at the time - has recovered herself since - mostly) ..... and other in-laws firmly on-side with the matriarchal order of things .....

So .... with sometimes help from my dearly departed Mum ..... I took on a super-mum role which was actually barely coping a lot of the time ..... but I did develop a lot of coping skills .... and one of them is my "self-clean menu" ...... goes like this .....

1. (ideal) A leisurely soak in a giant tub, preferably with spa jets and bubbles.

2. A dip and a splash in any sort of tub, bubbles optional, soap not !

3. A long hot shower with a nice smelling shower gel of some kind ....

4. A ten-second soap up and rinse off, preferably hot water .... tepid will do ....

5. A sponge bath out of a sink somewhere, with a bar of soap in the equation.

6. Wet wipes, borrowed from the baby, or bought purposely for this reason.

7. Deodorant - your basic "shower in a can" - wears off quickly though ....

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Love it @Faith-and-Hope.

hey @comet how are you. I've fessed up. Your turn😊💜

PS totally crappiest day ever to absolutely awesome are answers as is everything in between. Also would be good to have an idea of how many and what type of hugs you require. 💜

PPS. Must be feeling a bit better, I'm getting bossy. Just actually survived a phone call from mental health team and didn't crash and feel better for it - these here are crazy times😊💜

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Hi @BlueBay

Honey,

I dont know how to knit but know how to crochet.......

So happy for you that your getting into art.......creativity is I thinnk the only way to go to fix your mind........

With all my so called brave talk, I was still manipulated by Mum to see her on Sunday and it was awful.

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Fly the champagne corks. I'm showered. Ten days it was I think (lost count). Now to watch Star Trek Voyager while admiring my own perfume. Who's next? Virtual hugs still around for anyone who doesn't, but extra smiles for those who do! The challenge is on!

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Hello @Former-Member. Great that your back!...must say, was a bit concerned. With you on the showering. Day 3 I think for me...anyway.. Nothing much happening in this part of town....But, I have two Phams ladies coming round tomorrow....shall be quite strange having visitors....the cat will be as excited as me...even bought a packet of biscuits for the occasion!.....................& just got a call from the receptionist from the office of a psychiatrist I haven't seen before saying he will take me on as a client, now have appt for late September...so that is good (in hindsight the psychiatrist I saw a couple of weeks ago was a bit 'dissapointing' (maybe it was just me....). And can always go back to him if new one is not good....but he was recommended. Am hopeful.........So how do you feel about son & partner moving in? Might be really, really good!....I can only hope so.....would be interested to know what your new songs are at some stage....anyway, look after yourself! (& I don't mean showering...). Am really pleased your back. Take care. And,...........my thoughts are with you @Mazarita.....I know, not much fun! I wish you feeling better asap. Damn bipolar/medications.I empathise with your struggle!.....And @Faith-and-Hope..best of luck in yet another caring role for you (Dad's convalescence). Hope it goes well for everyone. I wish you all the best....your in my thoughts...I hope everyone has a pleasant night at least.......teej, I use teabags....

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Hey @comet,

im so glad you replied. Absolutely fabulous about PHaMs. I really hope the one you get is nice💜. I'm sure they will be😊. Let us know how it goes. My dog bought my phams workers balls to throw the whole time they were here. Comet will be a talking point too, it does help to have a crazy animal sometimes.

Thats great news about the psychiatrist too, although end of September is a way away. Crossing fingers they'll suit you.

Music. Well the song I've fallen for is called "The diving bell" by gang of youths and I like their new release too "strange diseases". Bit of a Paul Dempsey fan and like "idiotic oracle" and a song by Robbie Miller called "road". There was a few others but these were my faves for now.

After your summary I'm sending hopeful hugs for tomorrow and regular hugs for now. Take care😊💜

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Hi @Former-Member, 🐝I'm ok thanks, you seem ok too. Doing the best we can, hey. Haven't actually fixed my front door properly, need some thick perspex, or a new door - money I don't yet have. Please do share your painting journey here, to motivate me to get into jobs here I've procrastinated on. Plz ☺

@Faith-and-Hope, 🌹love your self-care menu / options. You make me smile 😄

@Mazarita, 🛁🚿congrats! 🛁🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Hope you feel better.🛀🎉

@peppipatti, sorry it went bad with your mum, can so relate, and i keep asking myself, after decades, why do i still hope or expect anything different??? They're not likely to change these... why do i hesitate to say... these 'mums'

I'm working on self compassion & learning how to nurture myself. Its my mums birthday today but the thought of ringing her comes with a wave of nausea after our last conversation where she... well.. was just downright rude. I mailed a gift & sent a tx but just can't ring here for the first time in my adult life, and i don't care. But probably will soon 😩 why? Because i don't want to be like her & i listen to a diff6etent drummer. Hang in there PP.

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There it is again 😭
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