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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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@Former-Member, i must add, that for all my bravado and ego, i do have anxiety and ptsd and trouble coping (all caused by the mental health system) and until i have the rights of any 'normal' person, i have no intention of going back to the paid workforce for another shocking drubbing. i am middle-aged to old, and settled on the pension now (although, as i said, there is no longer any good reason for me to be on the pension apart from discrimination). I struggled shockingly for years - two suicide attempts, and many shocking immensely painful and terrifying moments trying to keep going, decade after decade after decade. and then God worked a miracle of healing in my life, and i also figured out around about the same time that society ISN'T going to get its foot off my head yet (rights) and I might as well take it easy and try to help others until then. and now i'm going out to dinner, or i will after i have written this article which i really should get done now. there is always hope. i was in terrible pain for decades on decades. god bless 🙂

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Hi @Former-Member, the new house sounds great! Are the furbabies new members of the family?

@Terry it's a pity the Forums are anonymous so we can't go to Great Keppell Isand and get wrecked together A Friday Feast island party sounds fun though...

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Hi @Terry.. I think I understand what you were eluding to... There is a youtube documentary called Open Dialogues about a city in Finland where they have reduced the incidence of schizophrenia by 90%. I have also read that Europe offers the best mental health treatment & I think we need to learn from various approaches they use. Another thing my old psychologist (she was Hungarian) told me about & that I have also seen in a documentary is that in some parts of Europe groups of 5 - 10 people care for one individual as they "recover"/learn to manage mental illness.

Thank you @Former-Member... that means a lot. I think my biggest strength is my perseverance. (Also, I must be here for a reason, as I've had several near death experiences. Even when I attempt to completely give up - I 'pick myself up' & seek help & try new approaches - keep going!)

@Former-Member your new home sounds great - except for the lack of book shelves!! I have about 4 or 5 boxes of books too! Good luck with the psychI evaluation! I'm sure you will be fine! I like your humor about him paying your bills if he doesn't pass you!!

I think it is time to shut down the laptop & go read my book....

Namaste,

Anna

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Good luck with your article writing @Terry 😄

Hi @Former-Member yes the furbabies are 2 rabbits (they will come to school as class pets as well, cuddle and snuggle animals!) One is called Peter Rabbit the second! and the other is as yet unnamed (my son cant decide!). And we have a rescue kitten called Sally-Anne Sad Face lol (daughter's naming! but she does look a bit sad, and she is a sook!) and we got our old cat Revarn back! He's so happy to be home! That is also a bonus of having our own place again, i love my animals,specially after the kids are asleep at night, or im awake in the middle of the night, there's always some company!

LJ

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Sally Anne Sad Face - love it!!

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Hi @Appleblossom,

Nice to see you back, and i hope your holliday went well and you are well rested 🙂

That is fantastic news about your son, it is so nice ot see he is finally getting abreak and enjoying life.

missed you a lot around the forums, hope to see you around more

Take care

Jacques

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Hi @Former-Member...

Very exciting that you are able to have furchildren again!! How wonderful that you have been reunited with your cat!

I know I said I would go read, but I got stuck talking to my good friend Kerri-Anne on fb messenger - I'm concerned about her & trying to work out what I can do to help her & if she wants my help... *sigh*

Namaste,

Anna

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keep trying to get through to her and help her. eventually, she should, hopefully, respond. Lifeline (13 11 14) is very good if she does not want to open up to you. Keep trying to get through to her whatever way you can. Eventually she should respond, then be very careful with her emotionally and you probably will just have to listen non-judgmentally and probably for quite a while. good luck and god bless 🙂

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@Former-Member the article is terrible and the angle is all wrong. i should have gotten on to it this morning and now i have to go out. take care 'yall, and god bless. thanks for your company, lovely people x 🙂

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Haha, we could do nights out @Former-Member at different places! I like this idea!

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