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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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@Appleblossom

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Hi @Shaz51

Working it out day by day is the only way - I have been thinkinng of you with your proposed dietary changes - that must be an alarning idea - but I know we need to do that best for ourselves -

I would not care if I never even saw another broccoli - until they invent chocolate flavoured broccoli - that can't be too hard - they genetically modify everything else - - - but I do care if they take your favourite food out of your menu - tough that

@Faith-and-Hope

I am sorry you had your art taken down - I missed it - darn that - oh - yes - I stll might get it in my mail-box - I hope so

My computer is having death throes - I think today is the day - I am feeling better today and Friday's are so busy I feel like taking it easy on Saturday - but maybe I can make it last until tomorrow

And life goes on - Dad used to say that there was always something else to put on his to-do list - yesterday I got stacks of salad and started to eat proper meals again and feel heaps better - and now the computer is at it's last gasp

[vulgar launguage deleted]

Decadian

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Hi @Former-Member

I have not found your replies as abrupt - you are struggling with something I have not encountered myself and this must be a constant battle for you - I understand though - life is often a battle

Thanks for your comments on my snuggle-cat - she can be naughty - I think she is bored with winter and plays the door-game - lemme in - lemme out - and I don't change the weather for her - terrible cat mother

I was concerned when my daughter wanted to leave school - puzzled as well - I would have put her through university though I was still an undergraduate myself back then - but apart from me my family seems to be into gardening - and I have my plant pots growing mostly weeds atm - still have some herbs though - but she used to help her father in the back garden and it seemed logical to me that an apprenticeship in gardening would be right for her - and it was

All my male cousins have degrees but I was the first woman to get a degree - and for whatever reason my nieces have all gone through university - and the young women in the family seem keen to study - which is a good thing - maybe I set an example - but having people study encourages me - even my gd doing body art is interesting - maybe that is what she will do - maybe that's her passion

Seeing as all of my grandsons got apprenticeships without year 12 - I really hope your son can get one too - two of my grandsons are concrete layers - of course they would have the appropriate ideas regarding maths - I really don't know what they learned in a year - but they are both busy with different employers - so there is work

Needing year 12 to lay concrete seems a bit weird - so for your son - I think there will be something in the building trades - I certainly hope so - I can't see how roof-tyling - or road-building - needs that - I had private students needing English to get year 12 when they were into science and maths - and battled hard with English - so could I pass this off to you and your son.

Needing Year 12 English - which I assume is still compulsory - is a hard thing for kids who don't have an interest in that area - as their tutor I appealed to the scientific side of their mind - writing is a science - this is what to look for - how is this a protocol?

But for someone leaving school younger - kids who are not academic - this is one hard ask - and not fair

Year 12 is not for everyone - in 1960 I started work in a bank with my Intermediate Certificate which was good educationlly for girls back then - now I wonder if girls drop out of school when they were 15 - it was 14 when I was at high school and I wondered what happened to them. Even so I feel Year 10 is not enough - but the kids have to find that in themselves - and if it is not there - there has to be some other way - and yes - I have taught BAL as well and know literacy is not there for everyone

So I wish you and your son the best with that one - I think it's pretty unrealistic to insist on Year 12 in your son's circumstances - in many circumstances

And yes - thanks - I am feeling better today - I have made a salad for lunch - and it's late - dinner - early - I am feeling my appetite again and this has to be good

Catch up when you can - I understand your struggling every day

Decadian

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Hello @Decadian

chocolate flavoured broccoli -- I don`t think soooo !!! ha ha you can try it if you like and let me know , but Broccoli is off my list xx

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Hello @Former-Member @Former-Member, @Former-Member, thank you for all your messages

Sending you hugs for today

how are you today ?

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Another nightmare. This is so tiring. Feel so scared. Someone was after me in my dream again. Have to get up,otherwise the dream continues. 😮😨

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@Former-MemberI dont dream a lot these day unless painkiller related. drink stops dreams, not recommended tho.

had lots nightmares til early adult. I decided to become 'director' . that got me out of a few 'scrapes'.

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Hi @TAB

I used to have nightmares regularly years ago, then hardly ever. Just started having them alot again, since I started seeing the psychologist. I'm trying to see the good side and that is, I will be able to resolve the PTSD issues with the psychologist. I thought they were resolved, but I guess they've been hiding in my subconsious.

I went back to sleep eventually, then had another awful dream. Up at 7.30am, went back to bed for a bit. Doing chores. How's your day going? I might have to go off here very soon, lots to do.

I'll pass on the alcohol. Would send me on a downward spiral.

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yes, lots to do here too, cancelling them one by one lol. slept like log 10hrs just woke, bit knocked out, but in good way @Former-Member been on water last few days lol

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@TAB That's good re sleep. Wish I could sleep like that. Hope your day goes well. I better be off now.

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