Hi @Former-Member
I have not found your replies as abrupt - you are struggling with something I have not encountered myself and this must be a constant battle for you - I understand though - life is often a battle
Thanks for your comments on my snuggle-cat - she can be naughty - I think she is bored with winter and plays the door-game - lemme in - lemme out - and I don't change the weather for her - terrible cat mother
I was concerned when my daughter wanted to leave school - puzzled as well - I would have put her through university though I was still an undergraduate myself back then - but apart from me my family seems to be into gardening - and I have my plant pots growing mostly weeds atm - still have some herbs though - but she used to help her father in the back garden and it seemed logical to me that an apprenticeship in gardening would be right for her - and it was
All my male cousins have degrees but I was the first woman to get a degree - and for whatever reason my nieces have all gone through university - and the young women in the family seem keen to study - which is a good thing - maybe I set an example - but having people study encourages me - even my gd doing body art is interesting - maybe that is what she will do - maybe that's her passion
Seeing as all of my grandsons got apprenticeships without year 12 - I really hope your son can get one too - two of my grandsons are concrete layers - of course they would have the appropriate ideas regarding maths - I really don't know what they learned in a year - but they are both busy with different employers - so there is work
Needing year 12 to lay concrete seems a bit weird - so for your son - I think there will be something in the building trades - I certainly hope so - I can't see how roof-tyling - or road-building - needs that - I had private students needing English to get year 12 when they were into science and maths - and battled hard with English - so could I pass this off to you and your son.
Needing Year 12 English - which I assume is still compulsory - is a hard thing for kids who don't have an interest in that area - as their tutor I appealed to the scientific side of their mind - writing is a science - this is what to look for - how is this a protocol?
But for someone leaving school younger - kids who are not academic - this is one hard ask - and not fair
Year 12 is not for everyone - in 1960 I started work in a bank with my Intermediate Certificate which was good educationlly for girls back then - now I wonder if girls drop out of school when they were 15 - it was 14 when I was at high school and I wondered what happened to them. Even so I feel Year 10 is not enough - but the kids have to find that in themselves - and if it is not there - there has to be some other way - and yes - I have taught BAL as well and know literacy is not there for everyone
So I wish you and your son the best with that one - I think it's pretty unrealistic to insist on Year 12 in your son's circumstances - in many circumstances
And yes - thanks - I am feeling better today - I have made a salad for lunch - and it's late - dinner - early - I am feeling my appetite again and this has to be good
Catch up when you can - I understand your struggling every day
Decadian