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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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Hi @Former-Member

Queensland xx

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@Former-Member, how do you motivate yourself to housework? I have years of catch up to do here 😕

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Oh, I knew that, lol, - explains a lot actually, becoming overcast here. Probably only last a day.

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Good Morning - well - it's more like lunchtime

@Former-Member @Shaz51 @Former-Member and everyone

It's overcast here - beautiful morning - the sun is rising earlier now - it's noticable - and setting later -

We had clear skies the night before last - I went outside after sunset to check on the planets - it's a good time for it - I could see all five of the visible planets and I standing gawking at the sky overhead when an old man I don't know - (the population changes a lot in units etc) asked me if I was okay

Ah yes - I told him what I could see overhead - Mars Saturn and Antares in a triangle and Venus, Mercury and Jupiter in the west - setting - I rejoice - Planet Watching as been a pass-time of mine for about 20 years - and I love clear nights

But I don't know if the old guy knew what I was talking about - I told him the full moon would be rising any minute - oh dear - more new people here have caught me sky-watching with my mouth open - again.

I have been lucky this year - enough clear evenings to know what I am looking for -

So - is it going to rain - I will have to have a look at the weather - I dry my washing inside during the winter - on airers - and they do dry - but having them around the lounge is not fun -

Enough - enough - if at all possible enjoy the day my friends - and follow what interests you regardless of being caught in the act of gaping at the heavens

Decadian

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Ohh @Former-Member!!! I think coffee...strong! Housework is far over rated, but if I don't do the washing etc..it's mayhem. Kinda accept its my role as mum..I'm a bit adhd ish so if I'm low I listen to music too. Believe me, I actually dream of a part time job in something like retail...where I can dribble random crap all day to customers. My son & I went to his fave surf shop, I'd like a job there. How do you think I made up a resume in retail that's not entirely true but will get me the job??!! Lol

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Beautiful @Decadian..that's amazing.

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HI @Former-Member

It is amazing - and beautiful too - the planet are clearly visible earlier than the stars - and it seems magical - and I love sharing it with other people and will wait for ages for an event when planets are close together and pray for clear nights

Housework - ah - in the pre-historical and inter-glacial times women wanted a clear floor and made herself a broom and started sweeping the clutter from around the fire so she could cook without falling over the dead carcas of a deer her mate had brought and dumped on the floor in front of her

And we have been stuck with it since - some men care and like the place tidy - but fewer actually do something about it

But washing is different - evening living alone there is washing - I like clean clothes - and I think it's wonderful that I have someone coming in to help with the housework - I am not picky - just pleased that this is done for me

At least I have a washing machine - for years I did not - washing my clothes by hand was not kind to my hands - arthritis -

So we all have a task today I guess - I habe to make a pot of soup - just to use up what vegies I had left from last week -

Decadian

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Oh my washing by hand, we are far too privileged these day's, even hand washing nappies!! 👎..I did a little with my second, but soon ditched btge idea! Mmm soup...what kind are u concocting together? I love soups on these cold days. I never used too, but am learning I have to up-keep my health. Demand, pressure is high, so the body takes its toll. You Re very clever @decadian😊

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Hi @Decadian, @Former-Member

Oh I put the washing machine to work everyday xx

chicken soup , pumpkin soup , stews, yum

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@Former-Member and @Shaz51

I wash about every second day now - but in the past - for a family of four - it was a couple of loads most days - and my neighbour asked me it I had to do my washing so early in the morning

Strange question - oh - well - our house needing reblocking so the washing machine rattling away shaking the house at around 6.30am must have annoyed other people - but I to leave home at 7.30am and I had my second job in the evenings so I am still wondering when else I could have done that

But my old washing machine gave up the ghost at about the same time as my mother - and probate was taking its time and so my dd had to lend me money for my new washer and whaddayaknow - probate went through the next week

Soup - what soup am I making? - okay - I learned this from Dad's mother and my aunt still does this - it's called Kitchen Sink Soup because everything goes into it but the kitchen sink - today I have some mince meat in little balls to cook with barley and onion - then I know I have pumpkin, parsnips and cabbage left over from last week - and maybe some carrots - and this can last for a few days without freezing it

I will get there eventually - once I start it's easy

Okay - last night I cut up a chicken wing for the cat - the vet said she had to eat raw chicken bones - and the best I can get her to eat is the small bone in the wing - and as a treat for a cat with FLUTD - and a strict diet to prevent crystals from forming in her bladder - she has whatever meat I can get off the wing - which is very little - and she has to eat the bone first - for her teeth -

She's learning - you can train a cat to do exactly what it feels like - and why I thought this is soon I am going to start banging awat on the vegetable board - not the blue board for chicken but the green board for vegetables - and the cat will give me a hard time - but the chicken wing has gone

Enough about my cat - I am rambling on and on here

Decadian

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