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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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Hi everyone. Hope everyone is doing well today and if not, hope tomorrow will be a good day.

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Hi @Former-Member

It is good to chat with a like-minded person

Yes - I am a believer - definitely - I always have been and often wonder why my mother made me get up early to go to the 8.00am service with I was singing in the choir at the 10.00am service and went to Youth Group on Sunday nights - and then told me I would "Grow out of it" when after all that adolescent exposure I grew into it. I was called "The Churchy One" and this makes me laugh -

I am sure it was having my dd that enforced my commitment to my religion - in all these years it has grown and I also believe that if once you had a strong faith it is still there - being tested - and will return in time

I slept so much of yesterday - I did cook my steak and vegetables - but the globe in the kitchen went out and so I still have the dishes in the sink - yuk - I will have to wash them - maybe it was eating properly that made me sleep so much - but it certainly doesn't do any harm

I am sure there are worse ways of passing your day - you did plenty of chores anyway - but I feel a bit lost after losing a day too - and it happens from time to time - and there are worse things than carrot cake for breakfast -

I have a firm idea that there are days when we just endure it - what ever it is - we are not at our last gasp - just plugging along

And yes - it is good to chat on-line - there seems to always be someone about - and as soon as I have started to post I notice that there is someone about

I hope today is better than yesterday

Decadian

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Hi @Former-Member

I have lived in Melbourne all my life - I have travelled interstate and I like small cities - Canberra, Launceston and Hobart - I have been to Tasmania several times - I have lost count actually - I have relatives there but I have also been to Tasmania without seeing them - they are older now and very tired

I guess I am so much part of Melbourne I just fit in here - Melbourne is a very livable city - people having moved away from Melbourne and returned - I guess we all find our niche - I really enjoy the city - but then - apart from Sydney I have not been to another big city

The weather is something we all yap on about continously - ah - if you don't like the weather just wait for a while - it will be different - and my dd works in high-end retail at a nursery - horticulture - and the clients come in and tell them all about the weather as if they didn't already know because if they - horticulturists - are not in the shop they are in the nursery -

So since then I try and refrain from mentioning the weather except to maybe - the tinker, the tailor, the soldier, the sailer, the butcher, the baker, the candlestick maker, the rich man the poor man, the beggar man and the thief - add on the taxi driver, my hair dresser, the doctor - the nurses, anyone who comes to the door, shop-keepers - but otherwise - I keep it all to myself

But yeah - Melbourne - sometimes I think about walking around small cities and how much I see - esp when I get lost which I always do - but not in Melbourne

My wisdom - @Former-Member - actually - my uncle is a retired bishop - and I told him I had prayed for wisdom when I was in my early thirties - and my uncle told me that was very young - but indeed - my life was not satisfying - I needed more intellectual stimulation - and I have gained an education since then - but wisdom - it does need some education but as my maternal line is Irish I think that there is folk-wisdom that we inherit - and is gained with insight - and I have certainly gained insight

And living a life that has been really tough at times - there has to be value in that - I did ask for wisdom and started getting it that day and it hurts - we have to turn our minds over to a higher intelligence - whatever that is - and question things - and life hands the information out right, left and centre.

But thank you - it is good to have feedback - life everyone else I can doubt myself - and being alone most of the time I think a lot - and learn a lot

Life is interesting - and I move from spending days alone - and then being very busy - so there is a lot of contrast - but I find all of it worthwhile

Decadian

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Thanks @utopia

Today is a lot better than yesterday -

Maybe I needed all that sleep - maybe eating a lot of vegetables on Friday and Saturday made me feel better today - after all - I week eating mostly vegetable soup could be worse - but we need some protein and the piece of steak I had was bigger than usual for me and wonderful

So I hope your day is better too

Decadian

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Hello @Former-Member, @Mazarita, @Decadian, @utopia, @TAB

Hi @Former-Member, xxx

yes we did get there, had a few hicups , but with all my preparation it did go well

very relaxing , hubby`s camera would not work

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..did you check to see if there was water in the tank re 'squirty waterpistolcam' .. or was it raining again.. soz lol @Shaz51

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Hello @Former-Member, @Former-Member

. Nth queenslanders are happy to talk to you.--- Thankyou @Former-Member

How are you feeling today xx

Where about in nth queensland @Former-Member

I am in far nth queensland xx

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Ha ha @TAB,

'squirty waterpistolcam' , i love it

no rain

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Hi @utopia You were up very early. Did you need a nap today? Nice and sunny here today, I only did one load of washing though.

Hi @Decadian Good to hear that you are having a better day today. As usual I am at home. Have mopped most of the house, now sitting with a coffee.

That's great that you were able to go on your trip yesterday @Shaz51. I wonder why your husband's camera wouldn't work?

Hi to everyone.

What has everyone been up to today?

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..yeah @Shaz51, say 'cheese' ..lol cattongue:

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