Hi @Former-Member
I have lived in Melbourne all my life - I have travelled interstate and I like small cities - Canberra, Launceston and Hobart - I have been to Tasmania several times - I have lost count actually - I have relatives there but I have also been to Tasmania without seeing them - they are older now and very tired
I guess I am so much part of Melbourne I just fit in here - Melbourne is a very livable city - people having moved away from Melbourne and returned - I guess we all find our niche - I really enjoy the city - but then - apart from Sydney I have not been to another big city
The weather is something we all yap on about continously - ah - if you don't like the weather just wait for a while - it will be different - and my dd works in high-end retail at a nursery - horticulture - and the clients come in and tell them all about the weather as if they didn't already know because if they - horticulturists - are not in the shop they are in the nursery -
So since then I try and refrain from mentioning the weather except to maybe - the tinker, the tailor, the soldier, the sailer, the butcher, the baker, the candlestick maker, the rich man the poor man, the beggar man and the thief - add on the taxi driver, my hair dresser, the doctor - the nurses, anyone who comes to the door, shop-keepers - but otherwise - I keep it all to myself
But yeah - Melbourne - sometimes I think about walking around small cities and how much I see - esp when I get lost which I always do - but not in Melbourne
My wisdom - @Former-Member - actually - my uncle is a retired bishop - and I told him I had prayed for wisdom when I was in my early thirties - and my uncle told me that was very young - but indeed - my life was not satisfying - I needed more intellectual stimulation - and I have gained an education since then - but wisdom - it does need some education but as my maternal line is Irish I think that there is folk-wisdom that we inherit - and is gained with insight - and I have certainly gained insight
And living a life that has been really tough at times - there has to be value in that - I did ask for wisdom and started getting it that day and it hurts - we have to turn our minds over to a higher intelligence - whatever that is - and question things - and life hands the information out right, left and centre.
But thank you - it is good to have feedback - life everyone else I can doubt myself - and being alone most of the time I think a lot - and learn a lot
Life is interesting - and I move from spending days alone - and then being very busy - so there is a lot of contrast - but I find all of it worthwhile
Decadian