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worried

worried

hello everyone, im not really sure what im after. advice.. support...guidance.....

im a carer for my pop and has had to have a test done that was orginally thought a thyroid problem as hes had those in the past but since then have discovered a lump on his pancreas so hes jsut had one of those ct things where the dyes injected and now just awaiting results. and then he went to the drs today and now they want to do a lung biopsy. hes not too worried about it but im doing enough worrying for both of us and more.

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Will try to do some sketches of a coffee shop I found yesterday @outlander. Hopefully that will get me started again.

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Sounds :ok_hand::ok_hand: @Faith-and-Hope

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how to help someone cope through a grieving process?

my great grandmother passed away a few days and i think pop is struggling quite abit. he was pretty close to her (she was nans/his wifes mum).

@Shaz51@Former-Member@Appleblossomand everyone reading along...

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Hi @outlander

The following link might help. There is some info and also a helpline/online counselling service

http://griefline.org.au/

All the best

Joe The Lion

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thank you @JoeTheLion

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thanks @JoeTheLion

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@Shaz51 Sorry to hear about the death in your family.

The main thing I know is that everybody processes grief differently and each situation is unique. There can be all sorts of feelings and reactions, from quietness to tears and pain and even relief that his nan is free of suffering. Just make a few statements of being open to sharing or a gentle touch when he seems upset. That you are available will help him and he may not need to talk a lot.

Take Care Bella

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im not sure if Shaz lost someone recently @Appleblossom or possibly a miss tag..

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OMG @outlander how did that happen. I was totally sure in my head that I picked your name. That is so weird and weird for you. I m glad you just responded logically. I did not mean to upset you at all.

Hugz and Lots of Care for you and would never mix you up with

@Shaz51your personalities and situations are so different.

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@Appleblossomim not upset at all, people get jumbled up all the time and these things happen. dont stress about it at all

thank you for the tips, she was my great grandmother- so pops mother inlaw. he seems ok today but the viewing and funeral are coming up over the next few days so itll be hard for him.

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