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What is a mental health crisis?

What is a mental health crisis?

I have the number for my local mental health crisis team and have often felt the need to use it for my husband, but then I start second guessing myself. Does he really need it- I can get one or 2 words out of him? Is this a crisis? etc. What behaviour would be classified as a crisis? I understand that someone saying theyre suicidal is a crisis but what about if they shut down and stop/or are barely communicating? What if they're sleeping almost around the clock or just getting up late and then spending all day in front of the tv? I understand everyone is different but a general idea would be good.

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@Maze
I think that your gutsy just for asking that question actually :0)

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You can do this @Maze
Your gutsy
Strong
(Busy )
Sensitive
Compassionate

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By ethical I was referring to your thought he was not likely to become violent ... but so much depends on the actual situation and individual.

Was his breakdown sudden .. Was there a trigger .. has he been watching tv all day for weeks .. months .. which would sound likfe a slump into depression .. a crisis would usually be more active ... I think ... what do others think?

If you are working a property and he isnt pulling his weight and he used to, its probably not viable long term .. is he appreciating your effort at all?

Is he seeing health professionals? Are you in the loop?

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No he wouldn't become violent as he's totally against that due to past history. He just slumps into virtual non-existence. Past relationship is what caused his breakdown 10 years ago. Lets just say he was the victim of dv and endured it because he didn't know what else to do as he had asked for help and was refused several times. Been watching tv for just over 3 weeks and yes it is a bad slump in his depression. He hasn't been this bad in about 4 years, although he has had a cold as well. Lol when he's bad I start to wonder if he even realises I'm there. When he has spoken to the doctor one of the things which upsets him is that he feels he's a burden on me and lets me down. No he's not seeing anyone. Psych signed him off and can't access services until he agrees to give up his 5 beers a day! Considering he used to drink 24 hrs a day I don't think 5 is much! I like to have a couple after work.

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I keep telling myself that too! It's hard though when you feel like your talking to yourself half the time and your improvement suggestions go out the window. That's when I get frustrated.

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Yes I do the talking to my self routine a bit ... but apparently half the world does it so ... not

If you can see the enormous improvement in substance use ... is there no room for negotiation with psych services .... cant they scale it a bit to help ...

Remember man colds are sometimes 10 X worse than anything a woman catches.

spring weather is coming up and a lot of people are getting perkier ...

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What is a mental health crisis? is a very good question to ask and one which I've struggled with in the past. I'm going to suggest that if YOU feel that your H needs intervention for whatever reason outside of normal hours, when access to his regular health care provider is not possible, then I would call the Acute Care Team and discuss it with them. They will be able to do an over-the-phone assessment and advise you on what to do and at the very least steer you in the right direction if they themselves are unable to help. In my mind a mental health crisis does not necessarily only refer to situations in which safety is at risk but can also refer to an acute worsening of a persons condition which may require intervention via an urgent assessment and/or admission to hospital. Inability to function adequately and care for onself (e.g. not eating, tending to personal hygiene, mental/physical shut down, etc), loss of the control of their emotions (crying uncontrollably, hysteria, etc) , act/think inappropriately or irrationally (e.g. delusions, psychosis, etc), sudden non-compliance with medication, as well as any behaviour which involves risk to the safety of themself or others. I would suggest discussing the criteria with the person who armed you with their number so that they can further elaborate and clarify when they believe a call is required. If in any doubt whatsoever about the well-being of your H at a time when access to other support is limited please don't hesitate to call them.

Janna ❤️

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Hi,
I finally called yesterday. They were very good and things have started moving this morning. They told me to take him to the doctors today, which I did, and demand that they put him on a mental health plan, review his medication and do a full health check. The mental health plan is underway and the other things are to be started in the NY. I won't hesitate to phone them again.

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Glad he is finally getting treatment and you get some support that you deserve.

Have you got anything planned for Christmas?

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Dear Janna
I've read a few of your messages and LIke very much reading them

@Apple you are so compassionate with your feedback ..... Wow ..... Can you buy yourself a bouquet of flowers ? I'm buying myself a bouquet of pink flowers tomorrow .....

Janna I like your explaining of the acute care team. It's very thorough .......
I have noticed in the last 6 months that here in Western Australia ..... The acute care team ..... Named Merl here in Western Australia
The nurses and Doctors in centres focusing on illegal substance abuse ( been going there 3 times last month) and hospital Doctors and nurses coming out to visit patients suffering times of mental ill health seem to have become ...... Better
It might just be my perception
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