What is a mental health crisis?

Hi @Maze,

This is a good question. I do not have an answer but looking forward to seeing what everyone else thinks.

cheers.

Hi @Maze, that's a really good question. From my experience in mental health, the CATT team generally get involved when there is an element of risk. So that might be that someone is a risk to themselves (plans to self-harm or suicide) or to others through behaving threateningly (in which case they attend with the police).

It doesn't sound like your husbands behaviour fits these categories but I would stil encourage you to call them when you reach a point where you don't know what to do for him. When you ring there is a phone triage system where you have to answer some questions about what's happening. From this the CATT team will advise you about what steps you should take. It might be that they get involved or they might advise on another course of action. Either way you're better informed.

Of course, CATT teams vary and the individuals involved vary too. One day you might get someone very helplful but the next time is doesn't pan out so well. It can take some resilience to reach out for help and take the good responses with the bad. I would still always encourage people to try.

If you do call, let us know how you go.

I hear that you are concerned and on heightened alert for your husband. I am used to living with introverted people, sometimes they/we just need silence sometimes to connect.

I had a recent crisis and saw a new GP, instead of the CATT team. She was helpful. She discriminated between passive and active suicidal ideation, which was very important in my case.

Ie is it just a verbal expression of despair or is there an active intention or plan. I deal with a very high level of passive SI.

It sounds a good idea to trust the CATT triage process.

Dear @Maze

I'm getting little shakes going around my eyes remembering calling Pet team here in Western Australia ....that is the emergency Psych team here in Western Australia. This was over 3 years ago,

I've heard it's better now.

The only thing that I can suggest is to call if anyone you feel, especially yourself is at risk of harm. I remember calling and having some operators Useless. Me having to call again ...already in incredible stress and complain of the operator then beg for someone to call out.

So..... keep it VERY TIGHT when you call.

something like;

I am concerned of his safety and I feel that he needs medical attention immediately for siucide;

These are his symptoms;

This is what his activity has been like;

What stresses are happening around him.

As his Loved one and his FULLTIME carer; I am concerned about;

I can't emphasise the last pointer enough.

YOU are the most important. You are his fulltime carer. If you are not happy with anyone including the operator, you ask to speak to someone else.

I feel the best thing for you to do is to say to him in a very loving and caring way that you need as much suppport as possible to your husband and this is a decision you will make if you feel he or you are in danger.

So, the difference from your situation and my situation was that my husband was trying to quit drinking and taking drugs, .......there was no help. He should have been put into a detox centre or hospital with very big boundries around him immediately and .......there was no help because of his past record.

Now he is fine on that train of activity,,,but thats a different story.

Thanks for your question, Its making me realise how much both hubby and I have changed.

Me too lol

So there are a few ethical boundaries he has set. Can you just watch movies together?

Would he go to a group for MI or other interests like U3A.

I'm sorry I don't understand what ethical boundaries you mean?

Lol I'm not into movies much and besides if I sat down all day and did nothing but watch movies I'd be the one going stir crazy. I also have a property to run and at the minute I'm trying to manage by myself. If I sat down for 3 weeks the animals would starve and the place would be in chaos. I dont have time to be ill and when I very occasionally am jobs still need to be done so I have to deal with it.

He won't go to any groups about MI or anything else. He used to be into lots of active sports. Ive offered to go with him but the answer is always a "mmm" and nothing eventuates.