Bubbles3Senior Contributor
BUBBLES WORLD :)
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BUBBLES WORLD :)
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CatcakesSenior Contributor
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Good for you Spring Chicken @Bubbles3
I hope you enjoy your clean house and feel good about the achievement.👍🏻
I hope you enjoy your clean house and feel good about the achievement.👍🏻
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
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how are you going on the furoms now @Catcakes
are you feeling more welcomed now. i know you were having a tuff time a few days ago about feeling welcomed.
are you feeling more welcomed now. i know you were having a tuff time a few days ago about feeling welcomed.
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CatcakesSenior Contributor
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Thanks for asking @Bubbles3.
Like all of us here, I have periods of being very unstable, vulnerable and anxious/angry.
It probably isn’t a time to learn to do something new because your brain is already struggling. Well this was how it was for me when I joined the Forums.
I’m feeling much calmer and getting more out of being a part of this community.
But nothing stays the same for me for long...😬
Like all of us here, I have periods of being very unstable, vulnerable and anxious/angry.
It probably isn’t a time to learn to do something new because your brain is already struggling. Well this was how it was for me when I joined the Forums.
I’m feeling much calmer and getting more out of being a part of this community.
But nothing stays the same for me for long...😬
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
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same with me but thats good @Catcakes
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
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@Catcakes@Sans911@Faith-and-Hope@Queenie
i need your help and advise again
im feeling really low again.
iv had my mum telling me that i incapable of looking after my own kids. that im not good mum. that the kids shouldnt be left with me. it has hurt me so much. i know im a good mum. she says that i dont cook them dinner . that i dont look after them well enough. i dont know what to do. hubby and my mum get together and start talking about me say that i dont do this and i dont do that.
i try my hardest at doing everything around the house, raising my kids as well as dealing with my MI. what more can i do . how can i prove to them otherwise. it has made me feel so low and depressed.i dont know what to do or how to deal with it. i just dont understand why they are saying all these things.
also mum is saying that im worse than i have ever been , which is not true. she says i that i cant even look after myself let olone look after my kids. its just so hurtful.
maybe there right, maybe i am a bad mum and i dont deserve to have them. i dont anymore. i feel so lost and hurt by what they are saying.
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CatcakesSenior Contributor
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I’m so sorry @Bubbles3 that family members are trying to undermine your confidence in your parenting. But they have failed because the best thing you said was “I know I am a good Mum”. So you can build on this Bubbles,
Try not to waste energy stressing about those who want to take you down. Use that energy to do good things for yourself and your kids.
That’s the best thing you can do is enjoy your kids, enjoy making meals with them, reading stories, helping with homework and talking with them.
You can do it Bubbles
💪❤️
Try not to waste energy stressing about those who want to take you down. Use that energy to do good things for yourself and your kids.
That’s the best thing you can do is enjoy your kids, enjoy making meals with them, reading stories, helping with homework and talking with them.
You can do it Bubbles
💪❤️
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
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Thank @Catcakes
It just hard them telling me that im not a good mum. I hurts so deep. I try to prove them wrong but as soon as i do soming bad then there fmturn against me
It just hard them telling me that im not a good mum. I hurts so deep. I try to prove them wrong but as soon as i do soming bad then there fmturn against me
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CatcakesSenior Contributor
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I can imagine how much it hurts you @Bubbles3.
I really think you need someone on your side .
Do you have a community health service where you live?
I really think you need someone on your side .
Do you have a community health service where you live?
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
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I do but im not involved with them @Catcakes
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Bubbles3 it really sounds like you need some extra support around you. For your mental health, and for family too. I'm not saying you're not a good mother. Far from it. But having a mental illness and managing a family are big challenges together.
I'm sorry too that your husband and mother seem to lack understanding of your mental health problems, and seem to be adding to your stress.
Community health support can be really helpful in giving you support, information and might be able to help with increasing understanding with your husband and mother. It's entirely up to you, but I have them for me and it's been helpful.
I'm sorry too that your husband and mother seem to lack understanding of your mental health problems, and seem to be adding to your stress.
Community health support can be really helpful in giving you support, information and might be able to help with increasing understanding with your husband and mother. It's entirely up to you, but I have them for me and it's been helpful.
