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Taking the plunge
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MaggieSenior Contributor
Re: Taking the plunge
@CheerBear Hope you are ok. 💕💕 Dropping off a very early cuppa, and some 💜💜
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Big time need ☕here 😴
No more sleeps now @Maggie. Huge day ahead. Interested in hearing how that's all sitting right now but understand it might be better to have a quiet kind of morning. .
Thinking of you.❤
No more sleeps now @Maggie. Huge day ahead. Interested in hearing how that's all sitting right now but understand it might be better to have a quiet kind of morning. .
Thinking of you.❤
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MaggieSenior Contributor
Re: Taking the plunge
I’ve been thinking of you @CheerBear hoping you are okish. 💕💕☕️☕️
I dont know how to do today. Last minute cleaning. The app has me more worked up than the move. My head is foggy as, nothing new, but it is stranger than my norm
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Is it a foggier/stranger than the norm because of the clash of both/all the things perhaps @Maggie. It sounds and is hard 🙁
First up is appointment this morning from memory. It's big and you've waited a long time. Worked up is understandable and relatable. Do lists and reminder notes help on a practical level?
First up is appointment this morning from memory. It's big and you've waited a long time. Worked up is understandable and relatable. Do lists and reminder notes help on a practical level?
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Move first up @CheerBear . Starting at 9am. Hoping to be done by appointment time, which is 10:30. I will need to leave at 10, so will leave what’s left to them.
I have a list for specialist, but I’m floating in and out of whatever 😬😬😬😬😬
How are you? How was yesterday?
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Wishing I could click fingers, cross the water and offer an extra set of hands @Maggie. Or ears and coffee. I'm really hoping that by the end of the day you sit with some answers and/or a plan from the appointment, in your new home, under a tree maybe, and feel OK enough about it all, even through the exhaustion and the fog.
Yesterday was good here thanks. There's a mini crash back to reality happening here, but that was expected. Escaping to a fantasy land was almost too good. Hard to come out of.
Are you going for one last morning grass stop? Do you have pockets full of glitter to sprinkle on the grass as you go? 😉
Yesterday was good here thanks. There's a mini crash back to reality happening here, but that was expected. Escaping to a fantasy land was almost too good. Hard to come out of.
Are you going for one last morning grass stop? Do you have pockets full of glitter to sprinkle on the grass as you go? 😉
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Ha ha @CheerBear more than glitter me thinks. Yes, one more grass stop. The police wished me well, though shocked I was leaving. 🙃🙃🙃
Yes, fantasy world is much needed, but reality knocks hard.
I think that’s some of my fear about the app. So much on my mind atm, that it won’t get done right.
How could two planets collide, same day, same time. Nothing I can do but keep moving, doing the best I can.
Painting ladies were hoping to meet yesterday, but I said I would be useless, as my thinking was elsewhere. They are sad, but understood.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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I'm still shaking my head for you at how this two big things have clashed like this @Maggie. The world works in a twisted and not OK way sometimes. I think a big part of my issues is when things collide, which seems to happen more than I'd like. One big thing is enough. Two is a stretch and a test in every way, and you can't get much stretchier than housing and pain. Hearing you big time with this 😔 The noise and mind on the house would be unsettling in the lead up to this appointment. If you finish the move at 10 is there a way counsellor can go with you?
Rolling eyes at the 🌲 police :face_with_rolling_eyes:
Rolling eyes at the 🌲 police :face_with_rolling_eyes:
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Rolling eyes is right @CheerBear .
Unfortunately counsellor will be supervising unloading at the other end. My very very big worry is my baby. Counsellor will look after her. She’s fragile, like her mother in so many ways. I could have left the move to the men, but not my baby. 🙃🙃
I will head off now and finish what I can before they arrive.
Thanks so much for the company this morning. Sending these 💜💕💜💕💜 and these ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️ For your day ahead.
Next chat from new home.👍👍👍👍
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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I forgot about the logistics of moving your baby too @Maggie. Another very big one there (I'd be super unsettled at that one with my lot too 🐱🐱🐱). Far out it's all full on over there this morning.
More than ever I am wishing I could teleport myself. I believe in you and your counsellor though and know you have it in you to get through all of this today, even through the mash of feelings and thoughts that it is.
Thinking about you lots, sending you the biggest ❤ and ☕ I can dig up virtually. And seriously looking forward to hearing about what you can and would like to share over a cuppa in your new place. Thankful for mobile data too 😊🙂❤
You've got this Maggie x
More than ever I am wishing I could teleport myself. I believe in you and your counsellor though and know you have it in you to get through all of this today, even through the mash of feelings and thoughts that it is.
Thinking about you lots, sending you the biggest ❤ and ☕ I can dig up virtually. And seriously looking forward to hearing about what you can and would like to share over a cuppa in your new place. Thankful for mobile data too 😊🙂❤
You've got this Maggie x
