Taking the plunge

Good morning @Former-Member and yes the grass police were on patrol, even walking on the grass. Though I suspect rules for some don’t apply. However, I did take note for an ( if needed ) later. 😁😁😁👍👍👍 The Take note bit evaded the arrest. 😁😁😁😁

Hope you are doing ok ish. Maybe diamond painting day, or some of the day, for you. 👍

@CheerBear Good to read it’s still cool enough for sparkly boots, though I imagine you might still wear them in summer.

I saw a few young girls a few days ago with Doc Martens :nauseated_face::nauseated_face::nauseated_face: ( envy ). I thought of you, but they were nothing like your, for sure.👍👍👍

The 8 by 8 -4 by 4 whatever sounds interesting for ( prefer not home made ). 👍👍

Hi @eth 💕💕💕

Thinking of you @Gazza75 💕💕☕️☕️

@outlander Read over there earlier ⬅️ You sound sore and uncomfortable. Hope you heal soon. 💜💕💜🥰🥰🥰

@Former-Member We posted at the same time. That all sounds way too much for anyone to have to try and cope with. I’m not surprised you are fed up, had enough etc. I don’t know what to say other than hearing you, and wishing it could be very different.

I hear the ( we both suffer ) @Former-Member , I really do. Sending some of these your way 💜💜💕💕☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️ And hoping you can sit peacefully with some diamond painting today. 🐶🐶🐶👍👍

Feeling for you @Former-Member

Ver much hearing you in how frustrating and let down you feel @Former-Member Can you get a second opinion to help hubby Hon? You both cannot keep going like this as it is destroying any quality of life you both could have. It seems irresponsible of this specialist to disregard hubby's symptoms so please seek out alterntive treatment. I know that is probably going to mean you having to look further away from home but if you can get some treatment to help it will ease your life at home a little.

You also cannot keep going under the pressures and behaviours of hubby - it is too much for you and you deserve so much better. I feel for you both - hubby is in pain but he should not be taking it out on you either. You have so much to deal with Sherry and I really hear you are suffering. Do what you need right now to look after yourself Hon

Thanks everyone @Zoe7 @Maggie @eth @CheerBear 🌹

I just really cannot talk about the situation with hubby right now ... I spoke to my psych on Friday at some length, but it hurts ... a lot. My psych says his treatment of me is all part of the disempowerment thing and also to make me doubt myself. Well ... I have to say ... its working. I will work myself up to talking about it in a day or two perhaps, most likely on my own thread.

@Gazza75 @CheerBear @Maggie I got a start on one of my new diamond paintings this morning while hubby was sleeping. My first attempt at the square drills. Going okay so far. And Gazza ... my light pad works a treat with the new battery pack thingy. Thanks for your help there buddy.

Okay ... hubbys already asleep, so I am going to go have a bit of shuteye myself. Catch up on some non-existant sleep. Hi also to @Shaz51 and @Faith-and-Hope ... sending heartfelt well wishes your way.

Sherry

I got a start on one of my new diamond paintings this morning while hubby was sleeping.-- that`s a good start @Former-Member

Ishould get back to doing my jigsaw puzzles -- i must one day

sending you lots of hugs

It's hard to talk about the things causing us so much heartache @Former-Member so take your time and only do so when/if you can find the words and the energy. You don't need to tell us more more than you already have - we know you are hurting and that life is extremely tough ...here with you Hon

@CheerBear I just read worry room...... I’m so sorry. I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. This is so wrong. But knowing/saying that changes nothing for you.

Sitting with you and very much feeling with you . 💕💕💕💕💕

@CheerBear Bracing yourself to call the owner about a gas leak, how strange some situations are for some of us. Seriously not ok.

So glad mouse cat knew you needed extra cuddles. They sure are sensitive little critters eh.

I didn’t leave coffee as I thought you might not be able to boil a jug, So was pleased to read you were heading to the kettle. ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️ Yes please to one. 👍👍

My yesterday ended up awful. I struggled to get to painting, but got there. On the way, one of the wheels came off my trolly, in more ways that one. 😩😩😩 So I implode, wishing I could explode. 🙃🙃 Its Just all this stuff is always there, day/night. The stuck feeling, I hate trapped stuff, messes with my head. I’m certainly no free spirit, but like freedom.