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the longest wait while being petrified

outlanderSenior Contributor21 Sept 2017, 10:09 pm AEST

the longest wait while being petrified

So on wednesday I went to see my gp about a skin spot I was finding to be quite suspicious and the news turned out to be not what I expected.
They want the spot surgically removed urgently as in tuesday unless others cancel and i can get in earlier. They want the whole thing and as it looks like its spreading already they want more than just the top taken off then if it comes back malignanat more tests to see how far its spread then removed those areas

the worrying part is i dont know how long its been there for and because ive noticed it change twice its a very bad sign. Unintentionally coming off her was fear. Fear from others makes me worse and she was sending off alot of that. She pointed out 2 other points that she noticed that are really not good and are often seen in skin cancers.

Im so scared and it seems like tuesday is taking forever to get here. Its really not easy to sit with and accept. Im bloody pertrified!

@Former-Member

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Unknown userMember29 Sept 2017, 4:53 pm AEST

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Hi @Shaz51, hope you have had a good day

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Shaz51Senior Contributor29 Sept 2017, 5:00 pm AEST

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Hello @Former-Member, how are you and how was your day xx

I cleaned 2 houses today , feeling tired now , love to have a glass of wine

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Sept 2017, 5:01 pm AEST

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I see you there @Appleblossom ❤
Hello @Shaz51 ❤

Yeah they know i have stitches in @Former-Member
The middle one is fine now got her issue sorted.
The youngest one is driving me mental.
Ive started dinner too.

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor29 Sept 2017, 5:11 pm AEST

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Give the youngest one a time out for as many minutes as she is years old ..... get her to sit somewhere a bit boring and tell her the clock will start again every time she gets up till it's done, and you're not going to listen to her until she is ready to listen to you ......

Set that as a boundary every time she starts to kick up. Soon you will only need to tell her that she will get a time out if she doesn't use her manners and show some respect cos she won't like being on time out, but when she has finished the time out, tell her you will give her your undivided attention for a full minute to find out what she needs and deal with it.

That way she will know that she will be listened to without having to be a pain in the bum for attention.

Calming breathing activities become easier the more often you do them @outlander ... your mind will start to seek that sanctuary and be more disciplined as you practice.

💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Sept 2017, 5:30 pm AEST

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Ok @Faith-and-Hope
Shes sitting down calmly now. Im in the middle of doing dinner now.

Ill keep practicing the breathing thanks ❤💌

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Unknown userMember29 Sept 2017, 5:32 pm AEST

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I am ok @Shaz51. Had an appointment with the MHT this morning and dodged a bullet, don't have to go into hospital so was happy with that. Just monitored really closely now

you would be tired after cleaning two houses!!

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Shaz51Senior Contributor29 Sept 2017, 5:39 pm AEST

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I am a bit @Former-Member

don't have to go into hospital so was happy with that-- that is soo good my friend xoxo

Hello @outlander

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Unknown userMember29 Sept 2017, 6:37 pm AEST

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@outlander @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope @Sans911 @Shaz51

I know what we all need, we need the COMMUNITY GARDEN, this is my adidiction, & my prescription.

See my puppy he visited The Community Garden & now hes peacefully sleeping he tired himself out looking at all the amazing flowers, trees , herbs, plants, trees, birds, & all the healing LOVE he & we find in there~~

My Love Always!

Bella XO 🙂

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Shaz51Senior Contributor29 Sept 2017, 6:40 pm AEST

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can`t wait to see your puppy @Former-Member xxxx

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Sans911Senior Contributor29 Sept 2017, 6:41 pm AEST

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@Former-Member - you are as beautiful as your name implies. Thank you. I think I need to seek out nature as I'm about to jump out of my skin with anxiety.

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