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Will a dog help

Will a dog help

Wondering about the commuty's thoughts on whether dogs help with depression and anxiety? I LOVE dogs but am a bit worried that the extra work might be too much at times I feel overwhlemed... But then, would the uncomplicated love and attention compensate for picking up poo?!

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Hi again 😄 @LadyT

I dont have a dog anymore.. but i think they're great at motivating people, comforting and just being that easy companion in any circumstance 🙂 In saying that my daughters new rabbit is keeping me entertained at night too lol and is happy to have a quiet cuddle at times too.

@Former-Member i think has lots of animals? and @PeppiPatty has a beautiful little dog called arlo 😄

What do you guys think?

LJ

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Thanks LJ

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We had a little terrier when my kids were little and I dont regret it .. my daughters used to love to run the dog and they were energetic and it helped us all sleep at night .. but I have back and neck injuries so I settle for cats these days. A lot can depend on the size and needs of the pet.

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Good advice, thanks.

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Thanks for mentioning me @Former-Member. I have 11 animals. I can seriously say that owning any living thing is a serious responsible choice. If you have a dog sure he/she will bring you happiness. Yet if you are not prepared for their needs and demands it will take then it's better to visit someone who owns one that you can see and enjoy then the owner had the reasponsability for its care.
I hope I have helped?
Bella 🙂 ♥

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@LadyT You might considering fostering a dog for a rescue centre. That way you have a bit of try-before-you-buy opportunity to see if it helps or hinders you.

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Thanks everyone 🙂

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You could share a dog perhaps with a friend of good neighbour so that way the responsibility is shared to ....I do this with my brother and it works well
AlienBP2

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Hi @LadyT, welcome to the forums, I'm new here too.

I find that being a dog-mother is both wonderful and also a responsibility. My current fur-kid is an adopted greyhound and she is a very lovely easy going girl. I also foster greys through a foster organisation getting the former (or so called failed) racers ready for forever homes. They really are a lifesaver for me, I have to put them first though, they are dependant beings needing *walks, suitable diet, veterinary care etc, so while the benefit for me is vast, the main focus of my care is not what they can do for me, rather what my responsibility is for them. Thats a great focus to take me out of myself and my worries too.

The pay off is that I have to 'show up' in myself everyday and put them first no matter how I 'feel' and be their guardian and carer and that is great for me to have someone to be responsible for. When I am unwell, I still make sure that they are well looked after, that would be my only concern for anyone thinking about getting a dog is a plan B for care if needed.

I certainly do love the uncomplicated love and attention and don't mind picking up their poos, mopping up their wees (when they first come they are rarely house trained having lived in kennels but they get it right quick).

The *Greys only need a little excercise too (15 - 30 min a day or every other day) being big couch potatoes 🙂

Happy deliberations whatever you do, think it through carefully and you will make the right decision for you and the prospective dog. I reckon its a great idea to thoroughly research the breed you are thinking about too because some have higher needs etc than others and an unhappy working dog who is not getting enough stimulation and excercise can be a stressor for us and not good for doggit.

Bottom line a dog is not 'therapy' - a dog is a life and a being all of their own who has needs too, it is a mutually beneficial relationship if done well.

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I found that my childhood dogs were very sensitive to my emotions - so if I was emoting too much, I could see it in the effect on them, and I would tone it down so that they wouldn't be affected by my bad mood. They knew when I was feeling blue, and would often stay with me and try to cheer me up by licking me. You do have to be consistently there for a dog who you own - and that discipline helped me to rise to the occasion. Also - the personality of the dog needs to come into it. If at all possible, I would urge you to find some way of petsitting - maybe offering your services as a dogwalker? That will give you some 'doggy time' and play and a taste of the responsibility.
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