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SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

The ALL-YEAR-ROUND job of DECLUTTERING and CLEANING our homes is daunting. Especially for those of us who HOARD, or struggle with depression, and decisions, anxiety & other MI. I'm so challenged in this way so reaching out for support. Maybe start an Declutterers Army 💪

If you suffer the same challenge or have some great suggestions - type away... 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙

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Thanks for checking in @soul, perfect timing, need a boost

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A boost as in a juice or a boost as in a lift in mood @Former-Member?

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both would be good haha

Just finished sorting the christmas stuff, half now separated to go. It took 2hrs, (how rediculous) cewcteas and my back is sore so having a rest.

The sauspans were halved as well. Boxed, ready to sell (I hope)

Its slow.

My goal is to clear a big corner to stack all these going out boxes in one room, then I can tidy the rest of house for open house inspection next Sat.

Are you OK today?

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You have trouble at larger shops? Forgot

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Well done @Former-Member - Christmas stuff was going to be a challenge but you did it.

Just remember the stuff you are going to sell was important to you but people being what they are will want an absolute bargain. Be thankful for anything you get. Saves you from throwing it away. Have a plan B otherwise. Maybe someone you could give stuff to.

Got a time frame in mind for the garage sale?

Open House next weekend - it's good to have a deadline to meet. Slow and steady wins the race. Keep ploughing away at it. Buyers won't expect everything to be spick and span.

I'm okay. Didn't get a lot of sleep last night - self inflicted as I was watching football ⚽️. I went walking and have been out so I think a little nap is in order before I go to yoga this afternoon.

My son is coming over for dinner. My daughter will prepare it whilst I am out - pizzas. After dinner, we'll all give the dog another walk. Won't be a late night.

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Just don't like crowds any more. I used to be able to shop til I dropped at big Westfield Centres. Doesn't do it for me anymore and there's nothing I want. Just groceries and bare essentials these days @Former-Member.

I did have a conversation with two people yesterday which was a step forward. Slowly getting some confidence back and allowing myself to be happy. Letting go of the anger and frustration. Being mindful - must be all that yoga 😆

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Thanks @soul, needed that 🙂 I'll get up again shortly 😞
Sounds like you need an afternoon siesta . beautiful day here.
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❤️😴🐦🐶💃🏻 @Former-Member

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I can relate to the crowd issue @soul, and not wanting anything anymore, not really, unless I swing into a high with the stimuli, like hyperactive, impulse buy etc, really takes it out of me, my mother wis the same, when I get home I sometimes crash for two days. So yes, s laying away from cross & hype is safer for me.

Yoga seems to work for you, and the mindfulness - well done!

I just finished off a rebarb pie with passionate fruit, kiwi fruit, & fresh cream for lunch - yum!

Pain pills starting to kick in so Guess I better get up and keep going. Thanks again 🙂

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Hi @Former-Member - Glad the tidying is progressing and I hope you saved some of that pie for me

I have a problem with large shopping centres... I don't like being places where I can't see natural light and I also don't like the visual and aural assault on my senses, - all the people and bright lights and noise. I'm also really aware of the Gruen Transfer that is built into shopping centres... google it - once you know what it is you'll notice it too. I try to get in and out as quick as possible. If I don't get a park within five minutes of arriving I just leave - drives my kids nuts

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