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SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

The ALL-YEAR-ROUND job of DECLUTTERING and CLEANING our homes is daunting. Especially for those of us who HOARD, or struggle with depression, and decisions, anxiety & other MI. I'm so challenged in this way so reaching out for support. Maybe start an Declutterers Army 💪

If you suffer the same challenge or have some great suggestions - type away... 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙

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@Smc @Former-Member @Adge

Someone has designed the cartoons around me!

I have school projects..baby toys ..their books...priceless artwork

I did not realise how much a hoarder I was..

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hello @Former-Member

just saw the picture of one drawer at a time..

trust me my home will never look like that....

I also have a very untidy husband....youngest child of 4 children...spoilt rotten..

although when we have an inspection by appointment for sale of the house ...it resembles the everything put away look...but the cupboards and drawers do not look like that inside laugh...

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I agree @Adge

when I have spent so much time and labour and my garden is starting to take shape and I feel proud...usually sell and move..

then start again...different style..

your dad would have received much pleasure from the garden during those years....remember the garden that way...

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Cleaned a few things our the fridge today, looking a bit better.

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@Former-Member @Smc @Former-Member @Adge @Faith-and-Hope

I have finished off one third of the built in robes in our room..

2nd bedroom covered with clothes to be folded neatly..haha..in bags to go to op shop..job for husband..

third bedroom well what can I say...in total disarray

in fact all 3 bedrooms look in total disarray...husband has plonked stuff in the hall in his usual inimitable style of putting whatever down exactly where he is and then leaving it there..

in fact I can categorically state that whole house is in disarray ...

husband's son sells real estate part-time from his other business...we are now going back with him..he is arriving at 9.00 in the morning! husband has gone off to sports club..

so our agent to sell the house is arriving at the crack of dawn and whole house will still be in total disarray..

tough

well done with the fridge by the way...I did throw some stuff out a couple of hours ago..leftovers...also did wipe it out the other day...so thank you darcy didnt think that would count..

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Any clean up counts @Former-Member

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@Former-Member

I think that I have seen that one before...

the road side one with the triangle...

will check it out when it arrives later

hoping that things on the improve in your world...another kind of decluttering...

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Morning @Former-Member and other declutterers ..... whoever is about this morning.

Well I am decluttering in our here-house by buying the sort of furniture that tidies things up pretty fast ..... bookshelves and storage shelves in particular.

It’s solving one problem but creating another one in the process ..... mr.f&h doesn’t want either the clutter (which is needed “clutter” for daily use) or the shelving to keep it in ...... nose is right out of joint at the mo.

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@Faith-and-Hope mmm, tricky. Would it help him at all if it was closed storage, so therefore not out in plain view? As soon as you add a door to shelves they become more expensive, but perhaps curtains? That could be as minimal as a flat panel of fabric, or even a roman blind.

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Mr.f&h ..... also known as mr-all-or-nothing wants nothing there in fact ..... he is going to have to live with the reality of winter here before there will be any movement in his stance ......

He doesn’t like any of this last round of furniture I have bought, that takes the house from a rental-type set-up to a family home ..... he had kept raving to extended family about how wonderful it was when we stayed here that it was so clutter free ..... well so is a hotel room ! As soon as you make it a long-term living space with a family in it, guess what ? The hotelesque clutter-free state evaporates, unless you live extremely minimally, which just wouldn’t work for us.

We have very busy minds ..... all of us. Therefore games and books are part of the furniture .... and have I mentioned that four of us paint / draw / craft ??

And the kitchen is a shoebox ..... and the laundry an even smaller shoebox ..... so .....?? More storage is a necessity and he won’t put a door on anything else ..... so open shelving it is !!
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