Topic Tuesday // Significant life changes for young adults // 19 Sep, 7pm AEST

@Ngaio-ROP do you have any book recommendations at the top of your head for libido and stuff we discussed tonight? It would be really helpful. I appreciated how you said that romantic movies and porn are make believe and stuff. I would like more real life examples to grow in a more healthy way 🙂

Thanks so much for your input tonight @outlander I really hope we didn't take you to an uncomfortable place. If this has left you feeling yuck, I'm really sorry and I hope you can chat it out with someone.

I just want to say thnaks for your awesome honesty.

no it wasnt you @Ngaio-ROP or anyone else

i done it myself. i knew it was dangerous territory and put it out there when i should have stuck to the topic. honesty is the best policy and as uncomfortable as it is other here are in the same place so not to bad to talk about libido wise

sorry guys

Thanks @Ngaio-ROP, it has been lots of ups and downs along the way , and each stepchild has MI in different ways like their dad who has inherited depression and other diagnosis

thank you for tonight , it has beenvery interesting and I find it hard to help them as their nature mum uses them and then dumps them and we are there to pick up the pieces

I haven't read it but "This is Not a Sex Book" was just released by one of the big Spanish Youtubers. She's like a Spanish Zoella. It's apparently really honest and informative, so maybe start there @Shakeelah25

There's another great one but I can't remember the name so I'll look it up and add it here later.

@MDT That sounds like a really htoughtful approach to meeting up. There's a saying "Men worry that women will laugh at them, women worry that men will k**l them." which sounds waaaayyyy over the top here but it's often a good tsrtaing point for a male trying to arrange a first meet with a female. She needs to feel safe more than anything, so sometimes that might mean it trumps your comfort. If that makes sense. But you sound really thoughtful so I'm sure there's no issues.

Also, believeing that girls have it easier in online dating is what makes it so awful for everybody. if you an connect with them having as tough time as you are, I think it makes the whole process a little easier.

Absolutely nothing to apologise for @outlander Everything you said related perfectly to the topic. 🙂

I definitely recommend the Parents Coaching service @lovemyboys The link is on the homepage.

it's great at helping parents manage behavioural stuff with their teenagers. if you're expereiencing school refusal, it's a great first step.

That sounds really tough @Shaz51 The coaching service is as much for step-parents if you think it might help.

Well as the final posts roll in, I just wanted to say a HUGE thank you to everyone who participated in tonight's Topic Tuesday. I certainly learnt a lot.

I'm so thankful for people's openess tonight. The questions you asked are likely the burning questions other have too!

A MASSIVE THANK YOU TO @Ngaio-ROP from Reachout.com for taking time out of her night to spend it with us!

Oh I also forgot to mention, there's a great blog on 'Tips to help you overcome change' that has been posted this week for those interested in learning more about managing significant changes (regardless of age or life stage) 🙂