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My housemate crossed all boundaries needles etc lied to me for ages and we got together without sexual stuff not even kiss thank god. Had to see mental health at dem today and yesterday and given prn to de escalate me. Just had fight now I'm locked in my room he's only been verbally abusive. But I got ptsd complex already so trigger upon trigger again
Sorry to hear you are having such a stressful time with your flatmate. Sounds like moving out might help you to distance yourself and feel safer.
Do seek help from friends or a helpline counsellor if things get too overwhelming. Take care of yourself.
kind regards,
Frog
In response to: Re: Have to move out
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Re: Have to move out
Sorry to read of your struggle with your housemate @Gypsy7 I think your decision to move away to protect your own mental health when a someone is not showing you any respect by crossing all boundaries is a wise one. It is good that you are being proactive in self care as you are worth it. Hugs
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