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Made a plan sought help got stigma

Made a plan sought help got stigma

Well I've made the hardest choice I ever gonna make I decided that I'm better not here. Mental health here is a joke. I don't want to talk to anymore to anyone I know. My kids will know when older why I have to do this. I've never been sure as I am now. I'm tired of my battle. My boys have my father. To free them. I can't I am tainted. I am mentally I'll unfit and never going to be a mum that they deserve. That's it.

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Re: Made a plan sought help got stigma

Hi @Gypsy7 - things sound so overwhelming for you at the moment. I'm sorry that things are just so hard. I have felt the same. I have felt like the worst parent in the world but my kids also need me. Kids who lose a parent to suicide are so much more likely to take their own lives when they're older, which is an awful thing. You are worth fighting for, just for you. The feelings do change and pass. I wish there were better services for you in Mental health where you are. Could you reach out, just for tonight, to either lifeline or the suicide call back line? I've found the latter very helpful in the past.
Hoping that you will hold on, there's many here who've been where you are now and are proof that the feelings do change, it doesnt stay the same.

In response to: Made a plan sought help got stigma

Re: Made a plan sought help got stigma

Hi @Gypsy7

I have sent you an email.

Please contact these crisis services before acting on any of your thoughts!

Lifeline: 13 11 14 or Crisis Chat

Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467 or online counselling

Beyondblue: 1300 22 4636 or web chat

If in immediate danger: 000

We are here to listen

In response to: Re: Made a plan sought help got stigma

Re: Made a plan sought help got stigma

Hi @Gypsy7 - was thinking about you last night, and hoping that you're ok. Here with you. Let us know how you're going if you can, here to listen.

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Re: Made a plan sought help got stigma

Thinking of you.

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Re: Made a plan sought help got stigma

@Gypsy7 We are all a mix of strengths and weaknesses. Dont be too hard on yourself.

I have thought similar things to your opening post again and again.

There is so much stigma and callousness around. Sorry you had to deal with it at your most vulnerable.

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Re: Made a plan sought help got stigma

Hi @Gypsy7 - about to get ready for bed here but wanted to let you know i'm still thinking of you and hoping that you're ok. Take care of you
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