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Really wobbly

Really wobbly

Any advice and suggestions about how to stay grounded and do self care much appreciated. I have some big stressors in my life right now. That combined with Bipolar 1 and Anxiety is really knocking me around. Trying to sell home as result of marriage breakdown, pay debts, find new home. My daughter (who is my main support) is leaving home (can't blame her). I have a young son to look after and I'm trying to protect him from the strain of the situation. All this is coming off the back of a mixed episode, which has recently been replaced by plumetting mood and skyrocketing anxiety. I am teary and on the verge of panic and need to talk myself down - there's noone else to do it. The future is scaring me.

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Thanks for sharing @Appleblossom . That's pretty cool! I can't say I'm a keen gardener. I do it because I have to. I can understand those who thrive in the garden. I do love my garden, but just hate plants that decide to grow in the wrong place!

As for you @frog , I'm thinking of you and just want to see how you are travelling.

We are here. Please reach out at any time.

Hugs,

BPDSurvivor

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I had a neighbour who loved gardening but hated weeding.

@BPDSurvivor

For some weird reason I am not like that. For first forty years I loved "nature" as vague as that is, and only in last 20 years gained more knowledge. Now I am as interested in weeds as anything else that grows. Its not about what it looks like and what is right. I am getting better at identifying and dealing with them quick smart. I even weeded at the vets this week where their gardener does a lousy job of it. Maybe its compulsive, my brain just says exercise ... bend knees and does it. lol

@frog

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Just wanted to say hi and acknowledge all of you who support me. There are so many, so I'm bound to slip up and forget someone, but I really mean everyone here It's a hard time for so many, and you make a difference to me!

@Appleblossom @BPDSurvivor @Zoe7 @TAB @outlander @Adge @FindingStrength @Fluttershy1 @DJMasters @Judi9877 @eth @Ant7 @MDT @Shaz51 @Bunniekins @Emelia8 @Anastasia @WIP @Snowy @Maggie @Faith-and-Hope @Sam3 @CheerBear @NatureLover @Teej @jem80 @Dadcaringalone @Meowmy @Mazarita @utopia @soul @Sans911 ...

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Awww dear @frog

Thank you! You support us to my friend. Big hugs always x

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@frog nice to hear from you. No thanks needed, always here willing to help where we can. You are always in a safe place here, always loved and never alone. Hope your Sunday has been well 🙂

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@frog Hey dear sweetie, hope things go okay in this Spring time. Take good care.

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@frog Thank you frog :). You are such a sweety. Take good care of yourself. Love peaxx

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Onya @frog

Ribbet ribbet my friend 😊

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@frog You are such wonderful support around here. Always appreciate your posts.

Take care. 💚💚🐸🐸

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@frog

Your so welcome and thanks to everyone that supports me.

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