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Completely hopeless and incredibly lost

Eden1919Senior Contributor

Completely hopeless and incredibly lost

I feel completely hopeless and lost and today my friend told me i wasnt trying to recover. that really hurt like a lot because i am trying so so so hard but it is just really difficult. and i feel like giving up i dont feel like there is any point anymore because i know deep down that nothing can fix this or get rid of it and i dont want to spend my whole life fighting for something that is not possible. i just dont think it is worth it anymore i want to cry why does this hurt so much....

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Eden1919Senior Contributor

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I cant take this it hurts so so much

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Phoenix_RisingSenior Contributor

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Hi @Eden1919, That is really horrible that your friend said you weren't trying to recover. I can only imagine how invalidating that must have felt. I have had a lot of people over the years tell me I'm just being difficult, not trying, just playing the victim etc etc. It really really hurts and makes dealing with the muddle that much harder.

For what it is worth, I believe you when you say you are trying so so so hard @Eden1919.

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Eden1919Senior Contributor

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@Phoenix_Rising thank you that means a lot.

I am still feeling just as hopeless but i guess it doesnt really matter anyway.

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TRIANGLEContributor

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It always matters @Completely hopeless and incredibly lost

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Eden1919Senior Contributor

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@TRIANGLE I guess i just mean that i even feel hopeless about being hopeless

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