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Relationships.....

Relationships.....

A while ago I gave a heap of people the flick and feel better off without them. Some are family and others friends. Now slowly but surely they've began texting, ringing and emailing me to say G'day. I feel their motivations for doing so aren't out of general concern and more so self interest. Short term I'm feeling confident I can live without them, long term I may never marry and have children and may regret this current life choice.

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Hi @sydfx, I can understand you pushing people out of your life for being dishonest with you. Dishonesty can be very destructive and it can lead to a huge lack of trust in people. Once trust is gone form a relationship, then it is difficult to repair.

Did you ever confront the people you have dropped about their dishonesty? If you did and they are aware of how you feel.... then it's strange that they would contact you again. Unless it's to apologise to you?

It sounds to me like they just weren't your kind of people... they had different standards and morals to you. I can understand how you feel.

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