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Staying Safe

Staying Safe

Hi just wondering how to negotiate staying safe with an unwell son.
I believe he may be manic he has created a debt, irritable and aggressive. Friends have commented to him that he is hyper and he commented himself on how he feels he is talking a lot. He likes the fact the meds have got him going ....fast but with it is snapping, anger and aggression.
We attended a community health review following his week in hospital in which he presented well and despite my concerns were told to just go see psychiatrist who is currently away, for follow up.
I am scared for my safety. I have had a drink sprayed around my car and me whilst driving. He has deliberately upended food and furniture on the floor, broken items and seems to think his behavior is warranted.
When he us calm he agrees not to be this way but can't do it obviously when out of control.

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Hope you are looking after yourself @WinterSun. You are right about things moving slower in the winter - be kind to yourself for taking things slow. That's great that you are feeling normal with the help of your supporter's group. Do you have much planned for the weekend?

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@Ali11

Not much on enjoying the slow down.

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It can be quite lovely, can't it @WinterSun? What's your favourite way to relax on a cold or rainy winter afternoon?

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Hi @WinterSun

Checking in to see how you are going.

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How are things going @WinterSun ?

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Hi @Former-Member

Things are somewhat ok.

My son is mostly good and holding down a job. He has weathered a break up with his girlfriend.

Currently having periods of absolute obnoxiousness which is aggravating and challenging. During this he directs all his annoyance at me.

It is hard and the last thing I need after everything else.

Thanks for remembering me.

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Been thinking especially of you @WinterSun . How are you going?

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@Former-Member

Thanks for your thoughts.

Survived the anniversary.

Life is complicated and difficult as ever. Soon as one thing balances out get thrown another curve ball.

Maybe son had right idea.

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Things still rough going with BP son @WinterSun ?

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hello @WinterSun

how are you today , thinking about you lots

@Former-Member, @Appleblossom

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