Staying Safe

Hi @WinterSun

Checking in.

Hi @Former-Member

Thanks for checking in. We are about to start second 8 week suicide survivors course. It’s helpful to do as people understand being in the same situation.

Son working we are trying to locate new psych needing Sat appts. Only sometimes compliant with meds but gaining insight. So though we are still on slippery ground is a step forward after two years.

Been a long year.

thinking of you @WinterSun and sending hugs your way

hello @MavisMae, @Former-Member

@WinterSun

How are things going?

Hi @Former-Member

Just completed out of the shadows walk for those lost to suicide and to raise awareness. Son had seventeen people who he meant so much to walk for him.

The loss of him is starting to bite deep as we pass through birthdays and other dates. Hard to push on past the despair some days.

Other son continues with work we are grateful for that. Hours are hard to make appts with CH so have booked with private psych for Sat appts. First visit in a few weeks hope he gets on with new dr and that dr is open to family interaction. Afterall, we want the same result.

To have seventeen people walk for your son is beautiful @WinterSun. I can only imagine the depth of grief.

Do you think other son is starting to realise his BP needs to be managed? From what I gather some but not all private psychs are less amenable to including family, you will find your son will need to give specific permission. Without this permission pdoc can receive information but not give it.

Keeping you in thoughts and prayers.

Darcy

Hi @Former-Member

I think after two years it’s finally clearing of the mind enough to have insight. He doesn’t agree he’s bi polar is verbalising it as depression. Probably grief. As an outsider looking in the current med is working. He is stable, gaining insight and more his old self. So we will see.

I know psych drs vary A LOT. My husband had two private ones that were useless and the current one in the public system has been the best and open to the interaction of me in treatment.

I know it varies between drs. That is the first thing I will need to establish as my son is not open about symptoms and we have gotten further with treatment based on our observations.

@WinterSun

How are you going?

Hi @Former-Member

Thanks for asking. We had new psych dr appt. Son is seeing private doctor who was a dr seen previously in public hospital admission. Son recognised him but dr didn’t know him.

Went ok and he is open to us contacting him if we have concerns so that is a big plus.

We continue day by day.

How are you and Mr Darcy?

@WinterSun

I do hope son + pdoc connect and that a good therapeutic alliance happens.

Trust hubby remains stable too. Relatively steady here.