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Topic Tuesday / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid? **Closed**

Topic Tuesday / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid? **Closed**

Hi everyone,

There have been a lot of discussion about ‘fear’ in the Forums lately; what impacts, good or bad, it’s had on our lives and questions about how to manage it. So what better way to bring together our collective tips and advice for each other than to revolve tonight's topic around the emotion?!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2strQAiM0iA

Tonight we are focusing on ‘Fear’. There is a wide spectrum of different types of fear – so we may not get to everything tonight, but what I’m hoping we can get to tonight is giving a brief overview of ‘fear’, talk about our own individual experiences with fear, talk about some strategies to manage ‘fear’ and try and apply it to our own individual situations.

So to start off lets look at what fear is from a physiological and psychological perspective.

Fear is a primal instinct that served us as cave dwellers and today. It keeps us alive, because if we survive a bad experience, we never forget how to avoid it in the future.

Our most vivid memories are born in Fear. Adrenaline embeds them into our brains.

Today, fear still hovers around us, silently monitoring our environments. As sensory information enters the brain, it splits into two paths. One feeds into consciousness, where we can observe and remember it. The other flows through the subconscious, where a region in the brain called the amygdala filters it for signs of danger. When a match is found, the amygdala can trigger an automatic response so quickly that we might respond before we're consciously aware that there's a problem.

So back in day fear kept us safe, gave us almost 'super human' skills to fight or flee, to manage threats like lions, tigers and bears (oh my!).

But now, those threats mostly don't exist... so we have to find a way to recognise what fear is and create strategies to manage our physical and psychological responses.

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

Just all the good folk here, no one else.

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

@Jacques thank you for being courageous and willing to share your experiences and thoughts

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

The best thing my friend got me to do was write some poetry and go through a relaxation CD. Now I normally hate those things but the supportive way she got me to do it I felt much more calm afterward. I even copied the relaxation CD onto my own blank CD so I could do it in my own space and time.

The thing witht he relaxation CD is to do as much as you feel able to. My CD went for 1hr 4mins. That was too much. The first two tracks were enough. Depends on the individual person to what amount is best.

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

I think with challenging those fears its hard to shift the 'gut' feelings that remain.. the fear is like its on automatic pilot no matter what the rational brain says... im not sure i can explain it better than that.

hi all 🙂

LJ

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

i have a fear of being in public, my way of dealing with it is to focus on the ground, it makes me feel as though i am the only person. another thing is when i am really anxious, don't go to sleep early of a night, instead try to really tired your self out so you don't wake in the middle of the night with a panic attack.

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

@NikNik for me, medication has been the only thing which has had any great impact - and unfortunately - the efficacy of this diminishes over time

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

Well everyone I must say goodbye. Been nice hearing from you all and good luck with the rest of the forum.

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Re: Topic Tuesday / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid? **NOW OPEN**

Good on you for taking part in the forum, @Jacques. I hope you don't have panic attacks tonight.

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

Hi @Former-Member, i could not agree more, i become hysterical when i am away from my parents, to the point that they have to come and get me. i know nothing will happen to them but my brain and body tell me otherwise.

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Re: Topic Tuesday / 14 July 7pm AEST / Fear; What would you do if you weren't afraid?

Good Night @happygirl it was nice to have met you, hope to see you around

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